studies & anger

hi ... i am 25 yrs old ... i am pursueing a famous accounting qualification... after a gap of 6 long yrs i have started studying... at school i was a science student uptil high school (A-LEVELS). and had intended to go for medicine for sure... but due to extremly high fee in this part of the world i couldn't...

i am good at studies and even though when i joind this accounting qualification i hadn't heard a word of accounts in my life... i managed to pass the first module with wonderful grades..but the problem is that i ve to study very very hard ...i ve spend too much time on one topic and this makes me very very angry.....mmost of the times i forget what i ve studied ....i even forget what i ve studied last night or the day before...and this makes me loose temper real bad ... i no longe have the memory i used to in school...and i feel ver ydumb sometimes... i cant carry on with this short memory ...and i cant leave either...i feel stuck , lost and angry

Hi,

Are you saying that you have attention problems (problems focussing)? When did you notice these problems first occuring? If you can, you should go to your doctor to discuss these problems. He/she maybe able to give you medication that can help you to focus better.

Kevin

i learn and understand the subject ..but i forget .. as if the topic was unknown to me....even after studying real hard...when i started studies almost 8 months ago i thought this was possibly due to a long break from studying...but now its just continuing....

Dear Friend,
It may be that you need a counseling assessment or to see your family doctor to discuss this. Maybe there is some emotional or physical issue underlying your memory problem which needs to be addressed.
I would encourage you to get some tutoring for your studies as well and see if this intervention helps you.

angercoach wrote:Dear Friend,
It may be that you need a counseling assessment or to see your family doctor to discuss this. Maybe there is some emotional or physical issue underlying your memory problem which needs to be addressed.
I would encourage you to get some tutoring for your studies as well and see if this intervention helps you.

i cant talk about this problem with my parents... as it is my dad is not supportive of my studies at all....and my mom i cant give her worries ..she already has a lot to worry about... affording a family doc is impossible for me....especially in this part of the world... i want to study and make my career but this habbit of forgetting what i have studied perfectly, the very next day and sometimes even a few hours later is really giving me difficulties in studies... i get very demotivated and depressed when i forget what i had studied so well and end in anger

there is no such consuling services in this cpuntry and good psychiatrists are rare... i dont have any physical issues but severe emotional stresses at home

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