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Why judge about others is harmful?

Postby simorgh » Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:45 pm

It is said:"don't spend time judging others and reacting negatively to all the negative in the world. "


I live in society .I care about something in society,I see bad management.
I see oppression ,I see discrimination ...........

But you say don't judge about others,

Dr Dyer said this in his book:(when you deal with persons that have no ethic)

"....remember the inner self, which they have forgotten they have within themselves. Avoid your inclination to accept ego's invitation to judge them..."

May you explain more about disadvantages of judge about others?How can it be harmful for me?
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Postby Chucky » Tue Apr 01, 2008 9:59 am

simorgh, it is good to be aware of the negativities in the world but it is not good if you let them affect your quality of life. I used to allow news stories to affect me and they made me very depressed. Now, however, I read the news stories each day but then just continue with my own life (and don't linger on the negative thoughts).

There will always be 'evil' people in the world - Please don't allow them to affect you.

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Postby meanne2007 » Mon Jun 30, 2008 4:08 pm

is not good to judge others easily, although it was good that you care about society. You have to prove it before you judge it
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