Impossible to manage my anger

It's impossible for me to manage my anger. I mean, I can control it. I just need some cooldown time. We all could use some, right? Yeah? Sound good, ya know? Well, what happens when we don't get that cooldown time? We kind of explode, right? Well, that's kind of expected, isn't it? So why would you want to give the person who is very upset some thoughts to "cooldown" to, when they are still VERY upset? Sometimes you just need some alone time, don't you? So don't you start doing some stupid things when you don't get it? Yelling at someone, hurting them, etc?

See, this is the problem with adults. Most adults. Adults believe when talking to kids that what they need to say is so vitally important that their kids or other kids don't deserve this cooldown time. Some "thoughts to cooldown to." But, what if we kids have some "thoughts to cooldown to?" We kind of get yelled at? Right? Yeah, I am right. Grounded, yelled at, etc. When we don't let our parents or other adults who want to give us some "thoughts to cooldown to" we can get grounded, yelled at, spanked, or other forms of punishment. So why is it so unfair? Because their our parents and always know better and we owe our parents everything in life. Wrong. Anyways, I believe that adults should respect kids' emotions a bit more, whether I was an adult or not, because we're forced to respect their's.

Just thought I'd make this known to everyone.

Peace,
Crazy4fun [you know I am ]

crazy4fun56 wrote: Anyways, I believe that adults should respect kids' emotions a bit more, whether I was an adult or not, because we're forced to respect their's.

I agree with you. Being able to go off by one's self and cool down is sometimes the only way to defuse the anger load. Although I am an adult, when my husband and I argue, I have to leave his presence for awhile, as the sound of his voice keeps me jacked up with anger and I become in danger of saying really bad things to him. Everybody needs to chill out in private, without continuous antagonism.