hating males...

all my life I hated men and boys they always were bossy and agressive.little boys are so annoying and they get worse as they hit puberty the only thing on thier minds in this period is sex they sepend so much time watching porn and spend the rest of their time trying to mimic what they see in porn. they are so obsessed with women's bodies to the point they don't see us as people anymore. I remember being harassed in the streets ever since I hit puberty and I hated the fact that I couldn't do anything about it.My life got worse when I discovered that my father was cheating on my mother who did many many things for him.In the future after I recieve a work I will cut all my ties with that son of a whore I will completely forget about his existence .I tried to find some confort in the running religion in my country but I discovered that religions only reflects the rules of society no religion will bring justice to us women in the western world women are seen as sexual objects and in the arab world they are seen as possessions ...I hate men so much, I hate them to the point that I want them all dead.the boys in my class are stupid sex maniacs,my father is a sex maniac and every ######6 man on this planet is a brainless sex maniac, the only thing that unerves me more than than men are their female defenders who think that men cannot control their sexual urges and are better leaders than women...I feel so much like cutting them to pieces and feeding their meat to dogs . They are so ######6 useless It got me to the point that I don't want to have friends anymore except if they loathe men like me

Looks like we have something in common. This will sound really silly and strange, but I completely agree with you even though I'm a guy. I've kinda always secretely hated my gender.

I mean, look at us and see just how deluded we are to believe that any of us can be called a man. Exactly a hundred years ago, our forefathers (at least mine since I'm European) stood in the cold and damp trenches, shaving their beards with glass shards and having rat infestations all the while having to sleep with the fear of death constantly on their minds. Nowadays I hear peers complain that their Gillete razors are irritating their highly-sensitive faces too much and need aftershave.

What you hate are manchildren, not men. There are sensitive and mature men out there, you just had the bad luck of encountering the dumbass majority.

ThatAverageGuy wrote:Looks like we have something in common. This will sound really silly and strange, but I completely agree with you even though I'm a guy. I've kinda always secretely hated my gender.

I mean, look at us and see just how deluded we are to believe that any of us can be called a man. Exactly a hundred years ago, our forefathers (at least mine since I'm European) stood in the cold and damp trenches, shaving their beards with glass shards and having rat infestations all the while having to sleep with the fear of death constantly on their minds. Nowadays I hear peers complain that their Gillete razors are irritating their highly-sensitive faces too much and need aftershave.

What you hate are manchildren, not men. There are sensitive and mature men out there, you just had the bad luck of encountering the dumbass majority.

you don't understand men always try to dominate women no matter the era or the culture

I know the reason that you're so upset about the nature of these men and that's because you want to be noticed for more than just your body and sex appeal. As a guy, I understand that and I'm the same way. So here I am, without any agenda of getting into your pants and yet confirming that not all men are like those that you described.

Purple 8 wrote:I know the reason that you're so upset about the nature of these men and that's because you want to be noticed for more than just your body and sex appeal. As a guy, I understand that and I'm the same way. So here I am, without any agenda of getting into your pants and yet confirming that not all men are like those that you described.

I cannot trust you because no matter what you say about yourself you cannot prove it,what I feel upset about is not only men but also the women who glorify them. And this is something you can't understand if we women catches our fathers,brothers,sons,husbands...watching porn or harassing women on the streets and try to complain about it we are going to be shut down right after and most of the time by other women telling us that "men can't control thier sexual urges and need to release thier furstration unlike us women".Personnaly when somebody tells me this I feel so much like striking him/her by taking a baseball bat and smashing his head like a hardcore psycho.What is really infuriating is when you feel all alone and misunderstood and suddenly you realize that the only thing you feel is hate and anger,hate for your unfaithful father,hate for your male classmates,hate for religion,hate for women who have no respect for themselves...And hate for every damn person you know. In the end you want to be all alone and live like a hermit ,because this way you won't deal with thier crap anymore.I suffered from a severe depression during 4 years because of my hatered for the male gender since they never brought me anything but misery and luckily I recovered thanks to my mother who was by my side and I deeply love her for that.My father on the other hand has been useful only because of his money because without it I would never have got the necessary therapy to finally begin to heal.

You know what I dislike? When people assume things about me and think of me a certain way based on something like my gender. I want to be noticed for more than that and given a fair chance, just like you do. See, you and I are similar in certain ways in that neither of us are particularly trustworthy of others, we both tend to want to isolate ourselves and not take risks because of fear and the possible consequences of doing so, but one thing that's different is that in all of my mistrust, I still try my best not to make assumptions about others, no matter how hard it is. Why is that? It's because I want the same in return and I know from experience how hurtful it can be to be judged for something unfairly.

It would be like me thinking that you're a slut and calling you one, simply because you're female. You wouldn't like that very much, would you?

Does your hatred of males also extend to gay men?

Purple 8 wrote:You know what I dislike? When people assume things about me and think of me a certain way based on something like my gender. I want to be noticed for more than that and given a fair chance, just like you do. See, you and I are similar in certain ways in that neither of us are particularly trustworthy of others, we both tend to want to isolate ourselves and not take risks because of fear and the possible consequences of doing so, but one thing that's different is that in all of my mistrust, I still try my best not to make assumptions about others, no matter how hard it is. Why is that? It's because I want the same in return and I know from experience how hurtful it can be to be judged for something unfairly.

It would be like me thinking that you're a slut and calling you one, simply because you're female. You wouldn't like that very much, would you?

I assume that all men are the same because I Want to protect myself .this is something you can't understand since you don't feel as threatened as I am in this phallocratic society .You see It's like schrodinger's box you can't really know what's inside people's minds so being careful is the only way to stay far away from troubles of course not all women are good either but don't forget that a woman is more likely to be raped than a man,that a female child has more chances of being kidnapped and sold as a sex slave.Pornography is always focused on the male sexual pleasure ;since most women do not orgasm from oral or anal sex,moreover these two acts are not something I would recommend to any woman,they are more about male domination than any form of mutual respectful pleasure.So you telling me not to assume what I feel like simply because you feel offended doesn't make much of a difference to me because I hear that all the time and the older I get the more I feel repulsed by men's deeds.

girl from morroco wrote:I assume that all men are the same because I Want to protect myself .

Being afraid that men will hurt you and believing that they're all the same are two different things.

You see It's like schrodinger's box you can't really know what's inside people's minds so being careful is the only way to stay far away from troubles

Okay, but that still doesn't mean that all men are the same.

of course not all women are good either but don't forget that a woman is more likely to be raped than a man,that a female child has more chances of being kidnapped and sold as a sex slave.Pornography is always focused on the male sexual pleasure ;since most women do not orgasm from oral or anal sex,moreover these two acts are not something I would recommend to any woman,they are more about male domination than any form of mutual respectful pleasure.

Okay. That's a different conversation.

So you telling me not to assume what I feel like simply because you feel offended doesn't make much of a difference to me because I hear that all the time and the older I get the more I feel repulsed by men's deeds.

I didn't tell you not to assume. I just told you why it's irrational.

girl from morroco wrote:I hate men so much, I hate them to the point that I want them all dead.the boys in my class are stupid sex maniacs,my father is a sex maniac and every ######6 man on this planet is a brainless sex maniac, the only thing that unerves me more than than men are their female defenders who think that men cannot control their sexual urges and are better leaders than women...

This is not "being cautious" or "protecting yourself. It's simply bigotry.

I feel so much like cutting them to pieces and feeding their meat to dogs . They are so ######6 useless It got me to the point that I don't want to have friends anymore except if they loathe men like me

It's amazing. You say this and then turn right away to complaining that you feel unsafe and in need of protection.