Love for chaos?

What would cause someone to love chaos or pain?

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Sometimes pain and chaos are just a part of life. But, other times, some people who love to control others - like batterers - cause pain and chaos in order to stay in control. It's not acceptable or healthy to like pain and chaos.
Continuing to be the cause of pain and chaos only leads to negative consequences personally, relationally and with society.

My post was removed....odd.

What is normal...why a psychiatrist once told me what normal is is what is accepted by society. Society isnt natural.

As i said and some one removed for a reason i cant figure. I'd rather watch a house burn down then on raised. Humans are attracted to chaos. Like a flame or an accident on the highway. Its primal to want to tear something down.

Is it healthy?......i couldnt say, i imagine not.

What would cause it is exactly the primitive erges in your mind. We arent ment to be controlled, by job, government, society ect. So its natural to have an erge towards chaos against that.

And pain?...pain just reminds you your alive. But some get some kind of rush...wether giving it or getting it.

Im no batterer,

i would never lay a hand on any woman.

But it seems the more i get knocked down, my body says no, but for some reason, i like it?

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Dear Spade, It seems to me that if you like being abused - you have some serious issues to deal with. Abuse is not normal and should not be tolerated. You are a human being and you deserve respect and to be treated with dignity.
If you don't respect yourself and have low self-esteem and self-worth - you will talk yourself into accepting any kind of attention you can get.
Stand up for yourself and don't tolerate disrepect or abuse.

Jamie... you are very difficult to understand and I don't think your comments are helpful.

Wether or not your capable of understand has no bearing on the fact my post was valid to the question being asked. And in answering the question that is helpfulness. Wether you agree or not really dosent matter as i havent broken any rules.

Ummm, not to even get between the posts here, but Jamie I just wanted to add has been helpful to me, and quite kind. Not relating to this, but just wanted to let her know.

Anyway, I am a big time chaos lover. NORMAL is a setting on a washing machine. Everyone has a different idea, and acceptance of what "normal" is.

I function way better in chaos. My dear friend who is laid back, and quiet once said to me "They wrote that song about you. That Bruce Springsteen song where they say "I came for you. Your life was one long emergency". It is. Or was.

As for getting beat down I would whoop somebody else ever physically or verbally bothered me or my loved ones, but the chaos I thrive on it. Not causing it or hurting others. Although I guess creating my own effects the people around me.

Well, I guess i don't know the answer, but there's many people out there like you. The bad part is we attract people who see that, and it's all good till it goes bad.

I think choas is mroe fun the rutine and the ordinary.
I would personaly rather have choas like if a huge war happend and everyone was running around going cracy, i dont know if its just me but that sounds 10 times better then waking up to go to school every day

Oakchair wrote:I think choas is mroe fun the rutine and the ordinary.
I would personaly rather have choas like if a huge war happend and everyone was running around going cracy, i dont know if its just me but that sounds 10 times better then waking up to go to school every day

Sounds like you like to be entertained. LOL Nothing wrong with that, but a war I wouldn't want. LOL Maybe we get bored easily, and the chaos keeps us going.

I create my own. I also entertain myself too. Not sure if that's a good thing.