ocd? i don't know what to do!

Please please help me- I don't know what to do. I have a boyfriend who is a really wonderful person, but there is something wrong with him. You see, there are two requests I have of him: stop talking about other girls he pretends to have these "crushes" on, and spend a little more time with me when i drive 4 hours to see him every weekend (he spends all his time playing computer games, and I end up hanging out with his room-mate. The only time we spend together is when he comes to bed at 4 a.m.) He said he couldn't do it, and dumped me. Then he revealed that it wasn't that he didn't love or care about me- he really couldn't do it. He has to do these things, or he has a breakdown. He has to talk to me every morning when he gets out of class, or he can't function. He has to throw up every day before taking a showe or he can't function. He can't leave his car unless it is perfectly straight and square in the parking place, he can't take a test unless he has his lucky shirt, pen, boxers, etc. And if a professor makes a mistake and has to correct it, he has a break down because his notes are out of order. I'm so scared for him; I can't stay with him, but I will never forgive myself if I leave him like this. I'm the only one who knows his secret, and I can't leave him alone. I'll never forgive myself.

Please please help me.

I'm so sorry

I have OCD, and I thought it would destroy me, but I'm still here. It sounds like he has severe ocd. I would try to be there for him as a friend mainly. Because he really cannot be in a relationship until he focuses on himself. I would encourage him to get help, because with medication and some therapy he can get soo much better. If he needs a fellow ocd person to talk to hes free to come here, or contact myself since Ive had rituals as well. If hes in school, most colleges/schools have counseling, he should def check it out asap. Hope this helps.