by Saraluna » Wed Apr 26, 2006 11:23 pm
I'm a young person whose had a history of extreme fear of people in general, especially public situations and oral presentations, and I'm starting to get over that this year. I recently got into a relationship, but I'm terrified of it. On one hand, I'm not sure if I've ever been truly attracted to someone. The guy I'm going out with now is wodnerful and loves me, but I don't want to do a lot of things that couples to with each other, and I'm terrified of kissing or anything remotely related. I don't know what to do, we were good friends before we started dating, and I really looked forwards to seeing him before we started going out, but now the sight of him fills me with fear. Will I like kissing after I've gotten over my fear and done it? Should I break up with him? How can I do that when he's such a great person and it could ruin our friendship? I really have no reason to break up with him either, he's been an amazing bf, we have a lot in common. What should I do?