Just a boring disclaimer - I know everyone here is doing their best to offer help and support to those who need it but people who are looking for help need to be aware that responses that they are getting to their problems are not necessarily the response that they would get from a professional.
I know it's hard to talk about problems and doing so online allows us to not fully reveal ourselves but I encourage everyone who's in need of help or advice to call crisis/information lines to get in touch with an appropriate service.