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Do you ever get sad?

Postby Madness88 » Sun Aug 21, 2022 4:55 am

Thinking of all these amazing dancers and wishing you could feel confident enough to be like that? It's so beautiful, and feels so meaningful and inspiring...but yet, I can't dance.


It makes me sad:(

-- Sat Aug 20, 2022 10:57 pm --

Everyone seems to hate strippers these days, but it's so beautiful. I think I feel trapped between loving the beauty and seduction of dance, but yet not quite being able to do it myself and feeling unsexy or unattractive if i can't.

Anyone else?

-- Sat Aug 20, 2022 11:00 pm --

because it's so..."feminine" :(

I'm a girl, and it makes me feel like I'm not feminine or interesting enough. I enjoy watching the dances and think they are so beautiful but feel so sad, because I feel that's what my partner wants?

I hate this stuff because I feel when I talk about these things, I'm waiting for someone to call me a "psycho". But *they* don't understand:(

-- Sat Aug 20, 2022 11:04 pm --

It's like feeling like I don't matter if I can't dance like that?

Btw, I was a dancer for a few years, but I always felt stupid doing it in front of my partner, partly because I wasn't very good, and beause I wasn't beautiful.

How can you be confident sexually when you are so average or ugly? To feel secure?
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Re: Do you ever get sad?

Postby Madness88 » Sun Aug 21, 2022 5:16 am

life sucks so bad being average. You do learn to accept it, which is good, but it never quite seems like life is a sacred or special thing how other people make it. It's just so blah.

-- Sat Aug 20, 2022 11:20 pm --

How do you be happy that way? I can accept it, and learn to find beauty in it, but where's the beauty for our lives? How to be content..smile...and grateful?

Why do I never feel grateful? Why does it seem like such an impossible task...like it's the hardest thing on planet earth. It's like the worst thing happening to me would still make me want more in life?

-- Sat Aug 20, 2022 11:24 pm --

I ALWAYS want more, and it feels like there's nothing more depressing than never being satisfied with anything...and the guilt that goes with it..but still can't help feeling so worthless and insignificant. Always wanting more, but not having the brains or talent for anything.

Limbo.

-- Sat Aug 20, 2022 11:25 pm --

Just not born in the right body?
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Re: Do you ever get sad?

Postby Madness88 » Sun Aug 21, 2022 5:29 am

Not being able to measure up,, and be as smart as what people are supposed to be, talented, beautiful, strong, kind...feel like I fail in all these areas. Like if I don't fake it, I'll die.
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Re: Do you ever get sad?

Postby Holodeck » Sat Jan 21, 2023 11:38 am

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