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I don't know how to help her...

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I don't know how to help her...

Postby HotEnBothered » Wed Aug 09, 2017 1:35 am

I am in a loving relationship with my transexual girlfriend and we are having an issue with her ability to be sexual.

She has been manipulated, raped, and fetishized over the years and it has taught her to turn away from sex. We can be 100% connecting, things get hot, she is turned on and then shuts down. I understand the defense mechanism, but I am having a hard time dealing with this.

I am a very passionate person, the closer we have gotten to each other, the more I want to be with her sexually and I don't know how to deal with her shutting down. I don't get mad, I become sad. I feel rejected and depressed by this. Intellectually, I know it's not about me and I know she wants to change it, but she is shy about getting help.

I know this is short, I just don't know what else to say, but I need to do something. Please ask for clarification so I can get to the heart of this issue and hopefully find a solution that works for us both. Thank you.
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