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Am i trans gender?

Postby Hannasue » Mon Apr 18, 2016 2:16 am

Hi, i'm hanna a girl but ive been noticing things through out my life that make me question being transgender. My first friends were guys in fact most of my friends are guys. I relate to guys better and ive always hated being female i hoped i would hit puberty and have small boobs so icould look more like a guy. I wanted yo be infurtile and not have periods cause it wouldnt make me remember im female.
I dont like looking in the mirror everyday and knowing im a girl. Ive never wanted to dress up and if i ever go shopping i like wearing mens clothes. My mom gets made and tells me im not acting "like a women" i dont think id get surgery though to me it just doesnt seem to help ir fullfill me when i think about it. Dresses more than anything stress me out because it usually means i have to dress up like a girl act like a girl and be a girl. I have a boyfriend but i dont think he was expecting a girl wanting to act like a guy or be a guy. I just wish i could wear a tuxedo to prom or a suite something thats not a dress or girly
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Re: Am i trans gender?

Postby Snaga » Sat May 07, 2016 4:51 am

I fall far short of transgender, but I can relate a tiny bit. The majority of my friends have been girls; I have historically been more at ease around them; etc. And I've always had a fascination for crossdressing, tho I don't.

I would like to have been a girl? But I don't feel that I am one. Definitely male, it's just not what my first preference would have been, that's all.
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Re: Am i trans gender?

Postby sludgefactory » Fri Nov 03, 2017 11:24 pm

these are classic signs of dysphoria for sure. no one can tell you are transgender or diagnose you as trans just like no one can tell you your sexuality! :) but i felt like that when i was growing up too. except i had mostly girl friends for some reason too lol. i'm a trans man on T for 2 years now, if you want to talk about what it's like to start hormones and stuff i can tell you and you can decide if you like the idea of it!
also you don't have to just be a boy or a girl. you can be nonbinary or genderqueer etc. hormones are just a way to change your body. your period will stop and your body will get more masculine and hairy. the list goes on lol
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Re: Am i trans gender?

Postby Snaga » Sat Nov 04, 2017 1:31 am

Being an older thread, I'd like to hear how Hanna is doing....

Agreed it's not an either-or. I feel non-binary.
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Re: Am i trans gender?

Postby sludgefactory » Sat Nov 04, 2017 2:27 am

whoops i didn't not even realize how old the post is... i'm new to the forum and have been browsing around a lot haha

i use he/him pronouns but i don't feel strictly male, being a trans male makes me feel like i'm different than a cis male and just a different sort of male category all together lol
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Re: Am i trans gender?

Postby Snaga » Sat Nov 04, 2017 2:01 pm

Well I didn't notice it was 2016 myself I thought it was a few months old
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