Hello.
My GF who i love so much is a person who stuters.
In general this thing doent bother me even slighly its just not something i think is that important.
But im having problems coz i dont know how to help or comfort here and that she sometimes puts here and anger out on me when i try to confort here.
So im here for advice how to aproach thease situations whne she is havinga week moments
Usually i try to help here by speeking in her place, when she is not comfortable (especialy phone) but sometimes she gets forced in to speeking (for example Bank). And if she doenst manage or the perosn or other side reasks question she just runs away crying. She then repeats same things whyle crying histericaly. If i try to touch or hug her she pushes me away. I try to comfort her but she doesnt listen at anything i say. And the longer i stay with her the angries she gets at me. And im confuz how to handle this situation. I love her and that is part of her but this helplesness kills me.
And that is not the only situation, As a person i try to ignore the stammering, as try not to correct her ever or just wait till she finishes her sentance its not of issue any more of me (thought she doesnt believe that)
Other times if she stummers in publick after that she makes scene on me that if i want i can wallk in shop from other entrance if im so emberased of her.
Or sometimes when there is games like pictionary she reufses to play just of scare that she might stummer.
I never force her in situations to speek if she doesnt need sometiems life puts them in her way as it is.
My question is how to help her and cmfort here in thease sytuation coz so far it seams it jsut angers her if i try to help witch eds up by yelling and pushing me away...
Will be thankfull for any help