steven1995 wrote:Hi,
I am curious to know how your progress has been so far. I have gone through the same struggle a little while ago, and I directly linked it to porn. I have been addicted for years to porn but only recently realized the toll its taken on my life. It completely replaced what sexuality is, should be, and could be in my head with sex on a screen. It makes sex not real, and in turn thats what turned me on and thats what I interpreted as sex, when really sex is this amazing, all around beautiful act of connecting. It gives us the idea that sex is just for the orgasm, when really the whole process should be slow and beautiful. I am getting off track, the point is that watching porn gives us a false sense of what sex and sexuality is, and makes it very hard to connect to a human sexually.
Also, one more thought - in reality, there is so much build up to sex. See the girl, want her, first kiss, first date, theres a whole emotional buildup thats completely blocked out when watching porn. It goes straight to the end, and naturally you want and crave more of that, its the quick easy pleasure, but killing the long term pleasure. Ok Im done. I hope this helped someone.
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