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Postby Violet46 » Fri Nov 29, 2019 6:44 pm

I have had many dysfunctional relationships. Actually, as a young girl I simply did sexual things with practically anyone who asked me nomatter what I actually thought of them. This also escalated in to doing something illegal that I might not mention for legal reasons with the person I lost my virginity with. I had no feelings for him and he persuaded me against my will to break the law in a very bad way. I was a criminal for 5 years.
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Severe relationship problems.

Postby Violet46 » Fri Nov 29, 2019 7:30 pm

I have had up to 10 dysfunctional sexual relationships with people I had absolutely no feelings for. Though I have never had a proper mutual relationship in my entire existance. I feel extremely upset about it. Now I am not thinking that I need a relationship, though the problems I have experienced have made me feel quite awful.
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Postby Snaga » Fri Nov 29, 2019 8:15 pm

Do you feel the sex is making up, for something missing?
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Re: Severe relationship problems.

Postby Violet46 » Fri Nov 29, 2019 8:49 pm

I think it was due to some dysfunctional thing. I did not actually have sex etc. for enjoyment.
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Postby Snaga » Fri Nov 29, 2019 8:53 pm

For the contact, the affection? I know sex is often putting the cart, before the horse- all to easy to do, these days.
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Re: Severe relationship problems.

Postby Violet46 » Fri Nov 29, 2019 8:58 pm

I think I did it due to wanting someone to talk to more than for physical intimacy.
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Re: Severe relationship problems.

Postby Snaga » Fri Nov 29, 2019 9:16 pm

Sex is a nice part of a relationship, but using it as the primary component... yeah not good. Sex, like all things human, will fade with time, and then there needs to be something else, to keep people together.
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Re: Severe relationship problems.

Postby serpand » Tue Mar 02, 2021 10:00 pm

To have a bright future you must let go of the past. Try hanging out in places where you are more likely to meet people who make you feel good, maybe find a boyfriend that you really like. Maybe a library, or an activity like learning an instrument.
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