Hi. I'm a 28 y/o male and I SUFFER from PE. I've lost the girl I loved because of it and she ended up cheating on me repeatedly until we finally broke up.
So I've been to doctors and they told me as I grow older and have more sexual experience, my PE will go away as well. I have years of continuous sexual experience and penetration, but my PE is still a big problem. I generally cum in just a few seconds, so during sex I mostly focus on foreplay and even with a lot of foreplay and a short period of penetrative sex, I fail to satisfy my partners.
My psychiatrist gave me Escipra for my anxiety and it used to work wonders for my PE, to the point that sometimes I even gave up on cumming and had delayed ejaculation, which is something I totally prefer over PE, but generally, it helped me satisfy some of my partners at least a bit and managed to give few of them real orgasms (that they didn't fake). But recently even Escipra has begun to fail me.
It is a major source of insecurity for me, questioning my future and ability to keep a partner and save a relationship from the fate of the one mentioned above. It has even made me suicidal, even though I wouldn't actually commit suicide. But the feelings of worthlessness and emasculation are too overwhelming. I want to satisfy my partners and have a real shot with love, but this is a major block.
I've tried many techniques like the start-stop or Kegel exercises, but they haven't helped me at all.
I'm really getting tired. Does anyone have any advice?