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Premature Ejaculation is ruining my life

Postby pdpax » Wed Jun 26, 2019 11:27 pm

Hi. I'm a 28 y/o male and I SUFFER from PE. I've lost the girl I loved because of it and she ended up cheating on me repeatedly until we finally broke up.

So I've been to doctors and they told me as I grow older and have more sexual experience, my PE will go away as well. I have years of continuous sexual experience and penetration, but my PE is still a big problem. I generally cum in just a few seconds, so during sex I mostly focus on foreplay and even with a lot of foreplay and a short period of penetrative sex, I fail to satisfy my partners.

My psychiatrist gave me Escipra for my anxiety and it used to work wonders for my PE, to the point that sometimes I even gave up on cumming and had delayed ejaculation, which is something I totally prefer over PE, but generally, it helped me satisfy some of my partners at least a bit and managed to give few of them real orgasms (that they didn't fake). But recently even Escipra has begun to fail me.

It is a major source of insecurity for me, questioning my future and ability to keep a partner and save a relationship from the fate of the one mentioned above. It has even made me suicidal, even though I wouldn't actually commit suicide. But the feelings of worthlessness and emasculation are too overwhelming. I want to satisfy my partners and have a real shot with love, but this is a major block.

I've tried many techniques like the start-stop or Kegel exercises, but they haven't helped me at all.

I'm really getting tired. Does anyone have any advice?
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Re: Premature Ejaculation is ruining my life

Postby Dbarranch1 » Thu Oct 29, 2020 3:14 am

I had the same problem, a few shots of alcohol helped but I couldn't hard. got an online prescription for trimix then a few shots Wild Turkey and I went for thirty minutes. Get the right mix dialed up and you will be good
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Re: Premature Ejaculation is ruining my life

Postby serpand » Mon Mar 01, 2021 11:39 pm

Try focusing your attention on your breathing, and inhale and exhale slowly and deeply. Try to achieve a semi meditative state, where you feel relaxed with a clean mind.
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Re: Premature Ejaculation is ruining my life

Postby vitiker2 » Sun Mar 07, 2021 2:41 am

I used to cum fast during intercourse,but I found when getting oral I can never cum.So when I thought I was ready to cum I would then have oral and no cumming.Just a thought.
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Re: Premature Ejaculation is ruining my life

Postby SoLostInLust » Tue Nov 23, 2021 2:23 am

This used to be a problem for me too and then it eased off a bit as I grew older and became more confident with sex in general. Nowadays, I use Super Kamagra which is similar to Cialis as in, it helps getting you hard (with Sildenafil 100mg) AND more importantly works on preventing premature ejaculation (with Dapoxetine 60mg) . Before using any of these, you should check with your doctor, you do not have any counter-indications. Not sure which country you live in and the relevant regulations there *mod edit*. Hope this helps...
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