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Snaga wrote:I have to agree, without already inherently having something that is more important (I'm thinking religion, such as The Apostles, monks, stuff like that, or some secular goal that consumes you, for that matter) than the sex drive, just trying to get rid of it, is unhealthy and mostly unrealistic, unless you can convince a doctor to do things to you. And that doesn't seem very healthy, either. I have... either disapproved, or severely edited, posts from people who in the past, described attempting to do some pretty extreme things to themselves in order to kill their sex drive. Just the idea of trying, doesn't sound healthy to me, whether it be by somehow shoving all that down internally, and trying to nail the lid down, or doing something inadvisable with one's body, as some people try. The urge to merge, is a pretty basic part of our coding.
HSS wrote:MaleHuman,
I will be direct, I hope that it can be helpful for you.
You would like to be a hero for your motherland, and so imagine...
Your country has been attacked by the enemy.
You are a brave soldier and you are fighting to defend it.
You follow the instructions from general commando. You take huge risks and sacrifices, you attack the enemy and kill many of their soldiers.
The war is finished. Your motherland is safe. You are glad! After many years of sacrifices, you demonstrated your value and helped your country crucially.
...but later, you realize that things weren't as they appeared. Your instructions were manipulated by the enemy. You discover that you didn't kill the enemy, but your country's soldiers. Your motherland is damaged and it is difficult to do something to change it. It's too late.
This is just a sample.
I understand very well that you have personal, good reasons to dislike your sex drive.
There are circumstances where sex drive becomes very difficult, problematic or other things.
But the real problem are the circumstances. And they can change.
Your sex drive is the source of your ego and, if you kill it, you risk having bad consequences for your emotional, physical and mental health later. Really, not a good idea...
I wonder if you could consider starting a psychological therapy about it; there is a possibility for a public therapy in many countries.
Again, please do not take it wrong. You are actually a strong and clever guy, not delusional. I just think that you could have some benefit from a psychological therapy, to take important decisions for your life. You are young and it's the right time for a therapy.
Btw: that a good “rule” is: do not do irreversible things, something that you can't change later.
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