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Re: Over 50 and Bi-Curious

Postby straightbutcurious » Thu Jul 12, 2018 11:02 pm

It appears that no one has posted to this site in over 4 years so I hope that I am not wasting my time here. I am a straight man who has been with many women in my life. I am currently single and have been for several years. I am curious about being with a man. The idea of going to a man's house and the two of us undressing each other excites me. After undressing each other there would be caressing,kissing each others bodies,doing each other orally,etc. I don't know how to go about finding a man for this. Any help ?
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Re: Over 50 and Bi-Curious

Postby SotIubitor » Fri Jul 13, 2018 11:29 am

straightbutcurious wrote:It appears that no one has posted to this site in over 4 years so I hope that I am not wasting my time here. I am a straight man who has been with many women in my life. I am currently single and have been for several years. I am curious about being with a man. The idea of going to a man's house and the two of us undressing each other excites me. After undressing each other there would be caressing,kissing each others bodies,doing each other orally,etc. I don't know how to go about finding a man for this. Any help ?


Hi !
I discovered this topic today and I am sad that no one is active any-longer here... So, your post is a great opportunity to have my say...
Maybe dating sites would help you. But I would suggest to find a couple not a man. A couple because there are many willing to have 3somes and this is a wonderful time to be with a guy, to offer oral and to satisfy the wife as well.
This is working for me, for us. Because we are a couple enjoying very much the mmf threesomes where I could touch, watch, suck another man who is interested in my wife.
I confess I need a woman's presence in order to be aroused by taking a cock in my mouth but if my wife is there... there are no limits in caressing and offering pleasure to the other guy...
I became sort of bisexual both for my pleasure and my wife's viewing pleasure; she loves so much to watch me doing it, somehow is similar to males' pleasure seeing lesbians in action...
I am not looking for individual man-to-man meetings :) I do not know even if I would be turned on ... but 3somes are wonderful.
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Re: Over 50 and Bi-Curious

Postby straightbutcurious » Wed Jul 18, 2018 9:37 pm

I took your advice and I checked out some gay dating sites. I put an honest ad in telling that I have never been with a man but have thought about it for awhile. Not one person replied. I don't know if being a virgin is a big turnoff or what the problem is. *mod edit*
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Re: Over 50 and Bi-Curious

Postby Snaga » Thu Jul 19, 2018 5:32 am

There used to be an excellent bi men forum that I was registered with, unfortunately it closed down.

I can't imagine why you would not get replies for a hook up. Might have to try several venues before you find one. As risky as it was, it's a real shame CL personals was shut down thanks to Uncle Sam. Expect more things like that to bite the dust, I have to wonder if that affected the bi men site I used to frequent.
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Re: Over 50 and Bi-Curious

Postby buddah013 » Sun Feb 17, 2019 1:59 pm

I also am a man over 50 and have had the urges to sexually gratify a man by performing oral sex. I am and have always been attracted to women. I don't find men physically attractive. I don't want to kiss, hug, cuddle, with a man. I just am attracted to the penis especially when it is erect. Whenever I watch blowjob porn I fantasize that I am the one giving the pleasure. I'm not sure when this started, but I do remember hijacking one of my father's porn mags when I was about 15 . There was a picture of a guy having sex with his car. I remember thinking to myself that his erect penis was extremely attractive. I would refer to that pic, at times, whenever I would masturbate. Recently I have been fantasizing about being penetrated. I have concluded that I am a bottom. These urges are completely sexual in nature. I am not wanting to be in a relationship with men, just random anonymous sexual gratification. I have struggled with this for a long time and have yet to take that leap. At this point in my life the urges are getting stronger. I have concluded that it is okay to have these urges and actually am normal.
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