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12yo Caught Giving Self BJ

Postby aah1989 » Fri May 15, 2020 2:33 pm

We found a video on my 12 year old son's phone that he took of himself giving himself a blowjob. He has recently expressed that he is really unhappy with his dad "whooping him" for punishment. Is this a problem? Should he talk to someone?
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Re: 12yo Caught Giving Self BJ

Postby Snaga » Fri May 15, 2020 9:58 pm

Hello and welcome!

It might help if he did speak to someone.

I wouldn't be worried about anything but what he intended with the video. I'm pretty sure lots of boys try that feat.
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Re: 12yo Caught Giving Self BJ

Postby DaturaInnoxia » Fri May 29, 2020 3:08 pm

aah1989 wrote:We found a video on my 12 year old son's phone that he took of himself giving himself a blowjob. He has recently expressed that he is really unhappy with his dad "whooping him" for punishment. Is this a problem? Should he talk to someone?


I hope you're more concerned about his talk of receiving a "whooping" and your legal duty to report if he's referring to physical beatings

But yes, he should talk to someone. It might be an odd talk though, "We're worried because our 12 year old child is unhappy that his father was 'whooping' him after we found a video of him giving himself a blowjob."

Have you looked into why he was making the video and looked into what other adults and older teens are in his life that he spends alone time with?
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Re: 12yo Caught Giving Self BJ

Postby vitiker2 » Sun Mar 07, 2021 9:08 pm

Every boy has tried this,but what was he going to do with the video?Was it just for him or did someone ask him to do it?Thats a question you need to ask him.It could be another kid,or someone on the internet.You need to find that out. Good luck and be well.
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Re: 12yo Caught Giving Self BJ

Postby CammieMe » Thu Mar 25, 2021 9:00 am

Hi there. I agree with the comments that you should find out what the video is for. If someone is asking him to do it, then that's a bigger concern.
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Re: 12yo Caught Giving Self BJ

Postby Impossibledesires » Tue Aug 17, 2021 11:02 pm

CammieMe wrote:Hi there. I agree with the comments that you should find out what the video is for. If someone is asking him to do it, then that's a bigger concern.


Most young people do not make videos for their personal records. If he is making a video it is more than likely that the intent would be to have it available to share. How and why it would be shared would be the concern as he has obviously created illegal pornography, even if created just to send to people he wants to like him.
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Re: 12yo Caught Giving Self BJ

Postby Snaga » Wed Aug 18, 2021 4:47 am

I wouldn't know about nowadays. Back in the day long before digital photography was a consumer item, I recall doing some snaps with a Polaroid Land Camera of myself- and kept the photos hid. It was exhibitionist in a way, yet nothing I dreamt of sharing.
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Re: 12yo Caught Giving Self BJ

Postby dm46 » Thu Dec 30, 2021 1:52 pm

I don't think punishment is the right mindset to deal with this situation.
As for recording, one can only hope it's for private, personal use only and not to share.
Rather talk to him about the risks of sharing this kind of material online and assure him masturbation is normal and healthy but it's best kept private.
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