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Postby Bwithme » Thu Mar 26, 2020 7:00 pm

Years ago, I started getting turned on by the idea of being sexually humiliated. My wife had complained about me being small, and not satisfying her. She began verbally humiliating me, and more frequently denying me intercourse. Somehow, this led to me being unable to get an erection or ejaculate unless she humiliated me. Now, she has sex with another man, and I can only get off by having a woman verbally make fun of me on the phone. My wife has on occasion tried to see if I could perform, but I cannot, and she really lets me have it- I won't repeat what she says. Any suggestions, or explanations for me?
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Re: Enjoy humiliation

Postby DaturaInnoxia » Thu Mar 26, 2020 10:18 pm

Getting off on humiliation isn't super uncommon.
I'm pretty sure there's a porn catagory for what you're describing.

I have a hard time refraining from negatively judging your wife for being the way she was to get you into it to begin with.

What type of relationship would you say you have?

Why would a guy be able to get it up for a woman who who behaves like that (at before one got a thing for humiliation).

Sensation seeking can be what gets people off to more atypical things.

"My wife has on occasion tried to see if I could perform, but I cannot, and she really lets me have it- I won't repeat what she says."
Wouldn't that humiliation enable you to perform?
I'm assuming she isn't willing to participate in this humiliation thing as an act for both of you.

- From this end, she sounds extremely abusive.

- Does that have an impact on you?

- I'd say the question is: what is it about the relationship that keeps you there?

- And, is this a type of kink you want to keep?
- How does this kink benefit you and how does it harm you?

As I already say, please feel free to ignore any or all of my questions.
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