by wc24x7 » Thu Jul 18, 2019 5:46 am
"As for "going down" on another child this isn't normal at all, it's definitely learned behavior." I disagree, but I can also see where when she, the original poster spoke of "experimenting" with other kids near her own age, oral sex probably occurred.
Children's sexual interests begin when they are roused the very first time, and that arousal can come from anywhere. Cartoon characters kissing. Sadly, but by inaporperate touch. A movie, sounds of a movie or TV show not seen but heard.... So "learned-behavior," suggestes the original poster here, saw something more than once. From her discription she hadn't, at all.
Where else would she get the idea to preform a sexual act to some as progressive as oral sex without having never seen it or been a part of? The answer is simple, her experimentations with other kids.
When I was in Jr. High school 13 years old or so, I first heard about masturbation. Before hand like the day before I had never hear of it, climax, what the hell is that? How did I hear about it? Through other kids.
Sexual curiosity in a young child begins because we are sexual beings.
In re reading the original post, the poster spoke of masturbating at a young age in front of a younger female. Rubbing her slit is more like it as a child doesn't know of the word "masturbation" even when told. The word makes no sense to them. I am guessing here that now as an adult, her vernacular as an adult is describing child sexual experiences as an adult and not as a child; a totally different picture from a younger reality.
Her early days of sexual play set her up for many things, brought a young mind with young emotions to an age far pass a child's platform in life. So in essence she was being abused by what she was allowed and encouraged to do by some. Would these events be considered abuse if it was openly known about? Probably.
The mother with the young son being bathed by two young girls, sounds like the act was innocent enough, but apparently not. The giggling of touching the young boys penis, broke there emotional- hymen.
The poster doesn't speak of these events occurring at different ages, (the bath and the experimentation), as when the sexual encounters with other youngsters as she herself had going on. It is easy to see and to answer her original question: Is This "Normal" Behavior for a Child?" No, it is not.
By this time in the posters original claim of being a child when all this took place, as like having a young child's mind, she doesn't. The sexual touch had at first touch robbed her of her emotional-virginity and we are not, she was not, dealing with a child's mind any longer. Her age by this time had nothing to do with it except for here in making a point of reference.
Be safe, sane and adhere to the absence of the 3 D's, Drugs, Drama & Disease.