Not sure where to categorize this, I'm a straight 20 year old who has had an ongoing side relationship with a longtime friend who is gay. About a month ago a girl who is friends with both of us told him she saw us fooling around. She told him she came by my house and both our cars were there but no one answered the door. He says she looked through a dining room window that wasn't totally covered and saw us jerking each other on the couch in the den. I'm in a panic and so is he, I checked that window and it was a clear view. He's gay and says he guesses he will just come out if she tells people. I don't know what to do, I have had relations with this girl off and on for a few years, we're like ###$ buddies.
She told him she wouldn't say anything and was cool with it but I'm terrified. If she tells one person it's going to spread like wildfire through our community and all my family and friends will find out. The worst part is she actually saw me go down on him. Should I confront her and pled with her or what, I'm terrified..