chocolate14 wrote:Would you judge a person if he/she tell you that he/she is pedophile but not harm sexually a child ?
Only express his/her desire in his/her fantasies.
Would you be comfortable with this person ?
I would not be offended, or angry etc of a person who came out as a pedophile as someone with ASPD
I understand what resentment can do to someones mind, and how it can twist and turn into something we don't want to be punished for.
I don't know a TON about Pedophila but if It's like sexual orientation and that the person is attracted but knows they can't act on it. I would trust that unless they are not respectful of consent and that you not only have to be saying hell yes, but also be old enough. I wouldnt prevent them from being supervised around kids, but I wouldn't give them a job as a teacher and I would try to limit the time spent thinking about it.
This is likely one of the most difficult things I assume any human would have to live through.
That said, anti depressents kill your sex drive, and I think that would be the way I would go.
I would listen to the fantasy but the purpose would need to be to assist the person in understanding why they wanted something, and what life damaging harm a child would experience, because an adult was horny.... Doesn't seem like a fair trade.