My son came on to me tonight... please help :(

Hi weirdedout

I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. It's not right for people to misuse the PM system like this. Unless it is reported, we as mods can't act on it. Private messages are just that- private.

If the messages are still in your PM box, would you mind reporting them for us? (click on the ! symbol in the triangle at the top of the message). Only mods will know that you have reported a message and we will deal with users who choose to misuse the PM function of the forum confidentially, swiftly and unceremoniously.

Same goes for anyone feeling uncomfortable with PM messages. We want to help and to keep this a safe space- and that's why we are here as mods, but can't help if we don't know about it.

Lily