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by polyone » Thu Feb 17, 2011 2:10 pm
hello i`m a 40 yr old guy in the uk, who is living a double life by using the internet for an addiction to ladies in stockings , also high heels , ladies feet ,without the knowledge of my wife.i was hoping i could find other men in the same boat as me and how they deal with it.
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by jasmin » Sun Feb 20, 2011 2:19 pm
Hi, polyone! You could try posting in more forums, like the paraphilia or fetish ones, to find more people who are going through this. Do you think that your wife would reject you if you told her about it? Have you tried therapy to keep this addiction under control? These must be pretty common fetishes.
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by polyone » Mon Feb 21, 2011 3:18 pm
thanks for your reply, the forums i think only make the situation worse, i need somthing that is going to keep my urges to view ladies wearing nylons under control, i dont want to teel the wife really
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by jasmin » Mon Feb 21, 2011 4:39 pm
You should look for a good therapist who deals with this kind of thing. Do you have any other interests/hobbies?
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by pa.guy » Sun Feb 27, 2011 5:27 am
I also have an addiction to stockings, heels and feet. For years i asked and even bought my wife some to wear. Even if it was just on special occasions. But she refused to. So i found my fix online and it only got worse. I resented my wife for.not even trying. I turned to the computer and looked everywhere for pictures. Got to the point where i was on craigslist looking to meet with someone who would wear them for me. Well now i am separated from my wife and headed to divorce. My advice would to be honest and try to work it out. Ask her to wear them for you.make some kind of deal. Don't end up like me
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by Kenny76 » Sun Nov 15, 2020 2:57 pm
I am in the same boat. Pretty much almost identical situation.
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