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Back at it again

Postby dy7 » Tue Dec 03, 2019 12:47 am

I've started to watch porn again. My wife doesn't know and I wish that I can be honest with her. To be honest I love watching it. I always have. I've been marries for 11 years and porn has been a constant stresser between us. I also cheated on her off and on which she knows. She is a great woman but I come to terms that I have a high sex drive who constantly thinks about sex and porn is my only outlet. There is more that I want to tell, but in due time. If you read my other post it will give you some insight as to what's going on. Quite honestly looking at porn keeps me in check. I just hate that it's a substitute. And I fear that she will catch on
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Re: Back at it again

Postby Snaga » Thu Dec 05, 2019 4:41 pm

Sometimes it's better to choose the lesser of two evils, but knowing the addictive and I think ultimately damaging nature of porn, I know that feels like an imperfect solution...
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Re: Back at it again

Postby Manners73 » Sat Dec 07, 2019 10:20 pm

If you've told her about cheating on her and she's still with you then what's the problem with her knowing you watch porn?
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Re: Back at it again

Postby dy7 » Wed Dec 11, 2019 12:01 am

It starts to get a little out of hand. Almost to a point that I start to replace her with it. I used to incorporate it in our sex life but that stopped so now I just watch it by myself.
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