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Postby specialprecious » Fri Nov 24, 2017 5:54 pm

Hi,

Today I went for a very long walk alone down some country paths where I saw walkers once every 30 minutes or so.

I've always had a fantasy about having sex outside and I think I'd decided in the back of my mind to masturbate outside during this walk.

I basically found a fence to sit on which was in partial cover and I jerked off and came within about a minute under my coat (at no point did I get my cock out). I instantly felt dreadful about it and since then I have been over and over in my mind a) why did I do this and b) what if someone saw, even though I didn't expose myself I am guessing I have committed a crime - I do not want to lose my job over a stupid impulse like this.

Just helps to share I guess.
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Re: Public masturbation

Postby Snaga » Sat Nov 25, 2017 2:35 am

Well... you're hardly the first to masturbate outside. I've done it, on my own property, and anyone who saw me would have to have been trespassing, and trying to, but yeah I've done it. I'm sure it's pretty common- the exotic aspect of it and the feeling of freedom are what attracted me. But yes, in a place used by the public you know they'd come down pretty hard on you if you had been caught. For some, I imagine that's part of the thrill (tried sex on a walking trail once, managed not to get caught but I wouldn't try it again). Personally, I'd keep from doing it again, but I also wouldn't beat myself up over it... just you know your own mind- if you aren't (or want to be seen as) someone who exposes themselves to others, then maybe shouldn't do that again in a spot where someone might come by....
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Re: Public masturbation

Postby josh0745 » Mon Dec 04, 2017 9:50 pm

Don’t beat yourself up, it’s a natural urge. I’ve done it several times, but I think I was remote enough to never contact another person. If you cannot get this urge out of your head, there are actual private properties you can rent and be outside in the wild to have your feeling of “freedom”. I have almost gotten caught having sex in my car back in high school, again just chance.
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Re: Public masturbation

Postby watcherwatcher » Mon Aug 08, 2022 9:38 pm

I understand it. For me its two things, one, getting off out doors and the second is the rest factor and this is the dangerous one. Know the law and stay with in it. I was at a place where it was just me and the open view of the land and lake beyond and had one of the most satisfying self care times in my life, adding my seed to the ground was perfect. I don't let it rule my life.
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Re: Public masturbation

Postby AnettK » Wed Sep 14, 2022 10:28 am

I think as long as noone sees you , and you dont cause any problems with it, there is nothing to worry about.
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Re: Public masturbation

Postby ConfusedDad76 » Tue Oct 28, 2025 3:53 pm

I've also got some got to spots outside and always look around when visiting new places.
Discoverred very early that bit of extra tension is very nice.
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