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Re: Over 30 And Still Masturbate Every Day.

Postby Prairie gal » Thu Jul 17, 2014 6:53 am

Sounds like an addiction when it's that frequent. Try to quit for even a day
and see for yourself.
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Re: Over 30 And Still Masturbate Every Day.

Postby Mr. Goldstein » Thu Jul 17, 2014 8:07 pm

Since initially posting this thread I have cut back quite a bit to prove that I can. I eliminated the fifth time and made the fourth time an occasional thing for 1-2 days (second day is rare) a week. Usually my frequency is 1-3 times and it seems as though I could take or leave additional times but haven’t really tried completely not doing it. Rather than cold turkey I’m instead trying to gradually cut back and get used to a lower frequency before trying to faze it out.
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Re: Over 30 And Still Masturbate Every Day.

Postby Mr. Goldstein » Sat Jul 26, 2014 4:51 pm

I have also never had an intimate relationship with another person. I’m not really sure if the two things are connected as there was a period of my life during my adolescence and young adulthood where I was completely celibate and still wasn’t anymore outgoing or driven to have intimate relationships than I am now.
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Re: Over 30 And Still Masturbate Every Day.

Postby asellus » Sun Jul 27, 2014 6:00 am

My brother had the same problem (to be honest I don't sure is it problem or not) he've been spending lots of time on different web sites like facebook, vk, okcupid and so on and gazed on photos of girls, I noticed that he masturbated couple of times (but I know that he did it very often). He stopped only when he got married, but I'm not sure that he don't do it again
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Re: Over 30 And Still Masturbate Every Day.

Postby Mr. Goldstein » Wed Aug 27, 2014 3:31 pm

I’m not sure if this is connected to my situation, but I recall an incident from when I was 13 or 14 years old. It was my brother’s birthday and I had inadvertently locked the keys in my mother’s car. It was a complete accident on my part, but my father didn’t believe this, he struck me and sent me to my room. He would then come in and take his frustration of not being able to easily get in touch with a lock smith on a Sunday out on me physically by striking me several more times in addition to my already being struck previously and being sent to my room for the same offense . I was so relieved when the lock smith came and guests started to arrive, I was honestly fearful that he was going to seriously injure or kill me over something that I swore up and down was an accident (and it truly was). What made the event more traumatizing was the fact that he wasn’t normally like this. He normally had a calm, laid back, demeanor but on rare occasions could be quick to explosive anger that could and occasionally did turn physical. He’d usually just send you to your room if you acted up or he perceived you acting up even if you weren’t.
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Re: Over 30 And Still Masturbate Every Day.

Postby Myotherlife » Wed Aug 27, 2014 10:27 pm

Mr. Goldstein wrote:I’m not sure if this is connected to my situation, but I recall an incident from when I was 13 or 14 years old. It was my brother’s birthday and I had inadvertently locked the keys in my mother’s car. It was a complete accident on my part, but my father didn’t believe this, he struck me and sent me to my room. He would then come in and take his frustration of not being able to easily get in touch with a lock smith on a Sunday out on me physically by striking me several more times in addition to my already being struck previously and being sent to my room for the same offense.


Based on my own history of what amounted to psychological abuse by my parents, I wouldn't be at all surprised if your masturbation has roots in the trauma you describe. I myself am certainly locked into sexual behaviour — masturbating, or engaging in fetishes — on a daily basis, and I believe that it is mainly an attempt to escape a world in which that I am very uncomfortable. One of the result of the abuse I went through as a child is that I have spent my entire lifetime (71 years) with low self-esteem and not a little anger. Combat in Vietnam, and being seriously wounded, didn't help. For me, my masturbation and fetishes allow me me briefly to escape into a place that is comfortable, at least for a short time.

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Re: Over 30 And Still Masturbate Every Day.

Postby Trevor100a » Sat Sep 08, 2018 5:52 pm

Though your post was in 2014, I happened by it and was moved to respond. You touched me with your honesty and bravery as I too live with the same intense, frequent need. But I've discovered I'm not alone.
believe the subject is even more relevant today since the norm, or average masturbation frequency, has been on a steady rise over the past decade and so these days in 2018 it's not at all unusual for a healthy, sexually active man to be masturbating and ejaculating that often. In fact, a growing proportion of men, young and old, have embraced it as a hobby and even enjoy it socially. In this Internet age of chatrooms and instant hookups, avid masturbators are no longer isolated but share and mutually support each other's need without judgement. Stats show it is not just the younger generation masturbating longer and more often but older generations as well. That has meant a surprising reversal of the old trend of decreasing masturbation as we age. Many older men report they now masturbate and have more sex than when they were 20 years younger, ejaculating several times a day for many. It's fast becoming a valued lifestyle.
So I think as taboos relax we adjust, we are allowing ourselves to live more naturally, as our bodies need, ejaculating more often. We need to help each other embrace this rare time and make the most if it by supporting and encouraging each other in this sensative but important area of male sexuality.
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Re: Over 30 And Still Masturbate Every Day.

Postby razareth » Thu Oct 25, 2018 6:43 pm

Over 45 and still masturbate and ###$ everyday. Won't stop until unable to perform.

No greater joy have I ever experienced in life, and I'm fine with that. As long as you are not hurting yourself or others, wack on man.

As for those who say you could ruin your relationship? Anything can. You could lose your job, get in an accident, hell a million small things can end one - all the same.

The most important thing is you are with a women who has no issues with your masturbation and porn enjoyment. Plenty out there. Let no one tell you otherwise. (yes plenty of frigid prudes as well) You will just be in hell if with a partner who has no appreciation for your virility.

~R
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Re: Over 30 And Still Masturbate Every Day.

Postby RottenFish » Thu Nov 29, 2018 11:40 pm

All the men I know masturbate every day, multiple times a day. There is no such thing as too frequent, since some of us men have more stamina than others.

Masturbation is a pleasurable experience. It's a great way to reduce stress. :lol:
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