How do I get over this kind of abuse?

I have been sexually abused by women and I think it has changed me. I don't know where to go to for help. I feel alone.

Well, you're definitely not alone. You can at least talk about it here, we have posts from others who probably have similar stories to yours. How do you think it has changed you?

I'm not sure if anyone completely gets over sexual abuse. It does change us. I was molested- fondled, as much as I remember of it- as an adolescent and it definitely affected my sexuality, I think. The frustrating part is in not knowing to what degree- how much would I have been what I am, without it having happened? I don't know. It's irritating- anytime we're sexually abused, it's taking something from us that wasn't the perpetrator's right to take. In my case, it took away knowing what I would have been destined to be without the abuse.