Our partner

My whole sexuality revolves around replicating the abuse.

Open Discussions About Sexual Abuse and Incest.

Moderators: Terry E., Snaga

Forum rules
You are entering a forum that contains discussions of abuse, some of which are explicit in nature. The topics discussed may be triggering to some people. Please be aware of this before entering this forum. If you are posting about actions of yours which you feel are/were abusive please post about this in The Remorse Forum. If you have been falsely accused of abusing someone please post in the For Those Falsely Accused of Abusing thread.

Please also note that discussions about Incest in this forum are only in relation to abuse. Discussions about Incest in a non-abusive context are not allowed at PsychForums.

Thank you for your cooperation.

The Mod Team

Re: My whole sexuality revolves around replicating the abuse.

Postby Snaga » Thu Sep 15, 2022 5:59 pm

AnettK wrote:While I would never want to replicate it again in real life, it is very difficult to avoid having the same body reactions (arousal) when thinking or writing about the abuse. :shock:


Kudos to them who don't find it difficult. I'd imagine it's common as dirt to have such a response. Depending on the circumstances and nature of the abuse. Unless we're talking about violent sexual assault, sex is kinda sex and for the kinds of stuff talked most about in the Sexual Abuse and Incest Forum, yeah it was sex and the body responds to sexual stimuli. Decades later, part of me wishes my own small taste of grooming/molestation had continued. Even though I understand that is wrong on multiple levels from an objective point of view. The body responds, however. And for some of us, it sticks with you.
We do not delete posts.
Please do read the Forum Rules
User avatar
Snaga
Site Admin
 
Posts: 19727
Joined: Fri Jun 27, 2014 1:58 pm
Local time: Fri Oct 07, 2022 1:12 am
Blog: View Blog (0)


ADVERTISEMENT

Re: My whole sexuality revolves around replicating the abuse.

Postby Terry E. » Thu Sep 15, 2022 8:59 pm

AnettK wrote:While I would never want to replicate it again in real life, it is very difficult to avoid having the same body reactions (arousal) when thinking or writing about the abuse. :shock:


So very true and counter intuitive, and so very cruel to be left with that as a legacy.
Terry E.
Moderator: Consumer
Moderator: Consumer
 
Posts: 1906
Joined: Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:22 am
Local time: Fri Oct 07, 2022 6:12 am
Blog: View Blog (1)

Re: My whole sexuality revolves around replicating the abuse.

Postby WillJF » Wed Sep 21, 2022 4:51 pm

I'm sorry to hear that your sexuality revolves around replicating the abuse. Abuse can greatly damage people.
WillJF
Consumer 0
Consumer 0
 
Posts: 9
Joined: Wed Aug 31, 2022 2:20 pm
Local time: Fri Oct 07, 2022 1:12 am
Blog: View Blog (0)

Previous

Return to Sexual Abuse and Incest Forum




  • Related articles
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 21 guests