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My Older Sister

Postby imdoneone » Thu Apr 01, 2021 12:19 am

My older sister sexually abused me when we were children. She's three years older than me. I was 4 and she was 7. It ended when I was 8 and she was 11. She would touch me and I had touch her once a day to every each other day. It also giving her oral sex and kissing.
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby Snaga » Thu Apr 01, 2021 2:46 am

Hello, and welcome to the forums!

What happened to end it, if I can ask? And how are you now with your sister?
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby imdoneone » Thu Apr 01, 2021 4:15 pm

I haven't told anyone. My relationship with her is sour.
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Postby Snaga » Thu Apr 01, 2021 5:30 pm

I'm sorry to hear it's not good, although I rather suspected, by the fact you posted here.

That's... an age in which kids do things without really knowing what they're doing, until they kinda grow out of it and understand when things are and aren't appropriate, but she seems to have been a bit more precocious than most maybe. Context is everything. Did she threaten you if you didn't play along? At those ages, the age difference is pretty big and that made for quite the power imbalance, in my opinion.
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby imdoneone » Thu Apr 01, 2021 8:07 pm

No. She never threatened me or anything.
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Postby imdoneone » Thu Apr 01, 2021 9:14 pm

I just learned that she and a female friend were abused by a teenage neighbor.
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby Snaga » Thu Apr 01, 2021 9:41 pm

I'm guessing that's where she picked up her own behavior. Was there any explanation for her stopping when she was eleven?
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby imdoneone » Fri Apr 02, 2021 5:46 pm

She stop when I tried to tell my mom.
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Postby Snaga » Fri Apr 02, 2021 11:09 pm

I was hoping she had naturally grown out of it- although I think 11 to be a little early for that, it would have been nice if she'd stopped on her own.
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby imdoneone » Sat Apr 03, 2021 10:03 pm

She said but now I still scarred and have problems with women because of my struggles with autism.
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