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Re: My Older Sister

Postby Snaga » Sat Apr 03, 2021 11:29 pm

I understand- I'm sorry to hear that it's affected you this way.
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby imdoneone » Sun Apr 04, 2021 1:11 am

It's infuriating is that she didn't seek help for her own abuse instead of doing that to her little brother.
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby Snaga » Sun Apr 04, 2021 4:19 am

I understand your frustration. At that age, I wouldn't have expected her to know any better, however.
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby imdoneone » Sun Apr 04, 2021 5:25 am

At the time, I feel I wished it didn't happen.
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Re: My Older Sister

Postby Snaga » Sun Apr 04, 2021 3:29 pm

imdoneone wrote:At the time, I feel I wished it didn't happen.


Of course!

Not being there, it's hard for another person to assess the amount of malice a child has when they do something like that- it's possible she didn't know just how harmful her behavior was, and might have grown out of it on her own. A lot of 'normal' child sexual behavior does, I'm led to believe from stories here, and my own experience as a child. The fact she was being abused by a neighbor definitely skews the definition of 'normal', for sure. Do you and her ever talk about what happened?
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