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Touched my sister's breast and I feel like the worst person

Postby Jackson888 » Thu May 30, 2019 3:42 pm

Ok. A few years ago when I was 15 my sister was 17. I was curious, everyone was talking about boobs and getting girlfriends etc etc.. I touched my sister's boob twice. No more no less than that and the occasional boob graze which I hate now but used to kind of not mind when I was stupid. Anyway, over the past month I feel as if I'm the worst person to have walked on this planet and I feel as if I betrayed my sister and my parents. I've apologised to her for everything wrong and where I've been rude to her. She said don't worry about it. Am I just as bad as sexual molesters, rapists or murderers? It's been killing me inside and I wish I could go back in time and make it never happen. Please help me
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Re: Touched my sister's breast and I feel like the worst person

Postby Snaga » Fri May 31, 2019 5:25 am

Jackson888 wrote:She said don't worry about it


Enough said. You were a fifteen year old boy, seriously. We're little horndogs at that age, no? I was. Kids do things that they realise just a little while down the road, are wildly inappropriate. I think a lot of us do a lot of awkward things at young ages. She's cool about it, so I really think you're beating yourself up over this, more than it deserves. You don't do things like that, now. She's all right. You've expressed your remorse to her. It's over and done. Try to let this go, and just put it down to being young and dumb.
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Re: Touched my sister's breast and I feel like the worst person

Postby Jackson888 » Fri May 31, 2019 4:02 pm

Snaga wrote:
Jackson888 wrote:She said don't worry about it


Enough said. You were a fifteen year old boy, seriously. We're little horndogs at that age, no? I was. Kids do things that they realise just a little while down the road, are wildly inappropriate. I think a lot of us do a lot of awkward things at young ages. She's cool about it, so I really think you're beating yourself up over this, more than it deserves. You don't do things like that, now. She's all right. You've expressed your remorse to her. It's over and done. Try to let this go, and just put it down to being young and dumb.


Cheers mate. I've heard about trying to forgive yourself. Thanks for the advice, appreciate it x

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Snaga wrote:
Jackson888 wrote:She said don't worry about it


Enough said. You were a fifteen year old boy, seriously. We're little horndogs at that age, no? I was. Kids do things that they realise just a little while down the road, are wildly inappropriate. I think a lot of us do a lot of awkward things at young ages. She's cool about it, so I really think you're beating yourself up over this, more than it deserves. You don't do things like that, now. She's all right. You've expressed your remorse to her. It's over and done. Try to let this go, and just put it down to being young and dumb.


Snaga, I've been thinking about it lately and am confused about how I should let it go. What do you think I should do?
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Re: Touched my sister's breast and I feel like the worst person

Postby Guilty757 » Tue Jul 30, 2019 5:36 pm

When I read this and read you were 15 I just think to myself you were just a kid and you are curious at that age, you should not beat yourself up about it, your just growing up at this age and figuring my things out.

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When I read this and read you were 15 I just think to myself you were just a kid and you are curious at that age, you should not beat yourself up about it, your just growing up at this age and figuring my things out.
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Re: Touched my sister's breast and I feel like the worst person

Postby Snaga » Wed Jul 31, 2019 5:41 am

Well I mean what we've been saying, just remind yourself you were a kid, you're not that person now, you know better, no real harm done, just going to have to stop ruminating over it and beating yourself up over it.
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