by shaneomac1234 » Tue Sep 29, 2020 3:20 am
I will make this short as possible , i met this girl in 2017 , we were in a close relationship , everything was going good had out ups and downs , i had a spurt of suspicion over her cheating back in 2018 but , there was no way to prove so we let it go talked about it , and everything was great , well we moved to another city which is 6 hours away from me , she got a job offer so we decided we were both going to get a apartment with each other , this was in sept 2019 the whole year in the new city was great met alot of good friends there , she was working but i had a problem getting a job , so basically did all the chores and running around ect , so at first we had a huge issue with cockroaches for 6 months until finally it got fixed , so in april of this year , i started to see my girlfriend being "distant" more than usual , so i never thought much of it so i just let it go , so few months later end of August , she came home and said basically , her words "i think its time for us to break up" i was huh , as i wasn't expecting that was what she was going to say but that whole month she been acting strange , on snapchat alot , giggling which i would assume was another guy , and i think thats the reason why she broke up with me , as she prob found another guy , and ironally the same guy she was snapping and talking to , she adds him a day after i had to move back to my home town , it was rough as i had to leave everything back in the city my friends , loved the city .., and she does this .. so now im home depressed , never thought be this hard to get over a break up as we were together for 3 years .. just to break up and not even talk about it kinda hit me hard , im already a emotional guy .. and it was pretty hard to just pack up what i can and leave .. so the question is does anybody have any pointers on how to get over fast as possible , because im having a rough time doing it , alot of crying/anger .. just dont know where else to go to . ps had to leave our 2 cats there because i couldnt take them back to my parents house , which made it even worst because those cats helped me when i was down ..