Wanting a schizoid boyfriend

by **swirl** » Sun Aug 02, 2020 2:34 am

I wouldn't call myself a schizoid, although I like being by myself most of the time.

The thought of having a schizoid boyfriend is something that really pleases me though. A boyfriend who doesn't properly know how to love and I'd have to teach him the meaning of it. A smart boyfriend who doesn't care about other people but would gradually warm up to me. That's something I'd love. If I had one person who would like me and only me I'd be happy.

You can call me Uni and I've never posted here before but I like browsing psychforums occasionally. I don't know what I hope to achieve with this post but I'm just kinda tired at this point and don't know where to talk about this.

Hello and welcome!

I've moved your post to Relationships- the moderator team thought this topic was more suited in there.

That's an interesting thought you've shared. It... reminds me of fantasies I used to have about finding a girl (I'm male(ish)) with some sort of issue, and... I'm not sure what it goes back to. A desire to 'rescue' or something like that perhaps. Do you feel as if there's some of that in your thoughts?

Also it sounds as if you are saying something like you're a bit of a loner, and wish for someone who's likewise a bit of one?

Which I never really thought of that, but a partner that was like that would probably have suited me just fine, ha. I'm... fine in social settings and like to people watch but if left to my own devices, I do tend to come out only when I'm curious as to see whether I see my own shadow, or not.

Wanting a schizoid boyfriend

Wanting a schizoid boyfriend

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