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Re: Angry with women and others

Postby GuessWhat » Wed Sep 19, 2018 9:22 am

Thanks xdude. For now nothing is working.

justpostingafewtimes wrote:Just wanted to chime in and say my 20's and relationships with women were a joke and my obsession with MGTOW at one point was gay and retarded. if a girl flakes out on you or bails it's for the best. can't get over it? too bad you're in a retarded stage of your life. I know I was. Need to learn to not care if they don't care and have a life outside of relationships if you're single.


Dude, i saw girls who refused me and then going with men whom treat them like beastes.
We do not start again the thing "girl know better then you for a relationship".
Inevitably, I have a life outside relationships; i never had a relationship.
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Re: Angry with women and others

Postby GuessWhat » Thu Oct 04, 2018 6:24 pm

Heh, I met a girl, and spent with her these 2 weeks.
She looked really interested in me, Monday she said "I want to do love with you", so yesterday we had to meet up.
At the last second she said that she was tired and she was in her pajamas and didn't want to go out.
Since she tried to hook up me every single time, I was a little bit angry, but I stayed calm and keep talked with her normally. Until I didn't answer her for just 20 minutes, and she got mad and say "goodnight".
I said to her I was watching a video, and then I invited her to go out for dinner on friday. She didn't answer, and answered just when I said to her "goodnight" at 2 a.m.
Today I said to her goodmorning, but she read and didn't answer.

So, since monday if i understand well, she is chatting with another one; it's really sure that she hooked up me to go out with him, and so now I'm nothing.
The script is always the same, jesus...
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Re: Angry with women and others

Postby xdude » Thu Oct 11, 2018 11:15 am

We can only guess.

Perhaps she felt rejected?

But I also wonder, because I think there are plenty of guys that don't want to rush sex, and it can also throw them if the role of initiating sex is reversed. Related, I think while it has become more socially acceptable for women to initiate, they too may feel conflicted having done so.

I have no great advice, other than the usual. Just let her know you were enjoying spending time with her, and would like to get past what went wrong that night. Her response is up to her.
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Re: Angry with women and others

Postby Squaredonutwheels » Thu Oct 11, 2018 2:28 pm

Women accept, men compete. It's the law of nature. Just accept that you have to do better at whatever you're doing. Whining won't help, that isn't competing.
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Re: Angry with women and others

Postby xdude » Thu Oct 11, 2018 2:39 pm

[quote="Squaredonutwheels"]Women accept, men compete. It's the law of nature. Just accept that you have to do better at whatever you're doing. Whining won't help, that isn't competing.[/quote

Not that it matters, but I find that to be over simplified, and think women do compete, but I do agree with the gist of this. Something I've written to you before GuessWhat... stuff happens when you embrace your primal instincts, and what do those instincts tell you to do? To really understand others you have to look past their intellectual roles and understand the primal side too. Do you know now what went wrong in that light?
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Re: Angry with women and others

Postby GuessWhat » Sun Oct 14, 2018 2:40 pm

So it comes out that she did in purpose to see if I would look for her.
She came back home, and said that her ex-bf was in front of her home to try again with her.
She said that they talked only and when he tried to get close, she pulled him back.

Today she said the truth, they had sex. And for what I could see when she was with me, she couldn't cut him off.
I don't understand, she's saying that she talks with him 'cause she cannot forget how good he was with her the first times. But i don't understand, he stalks her, he beat her up, he calls her "b*tch who let others come in her mouth" she still falls for him.
I decided to close with her.
There's no point, and after what I said to her, if one day she will do again, she won't even say to me. Of course, nobody would do. But with her it's to clear that this is gonna happen again and again.
Everybody cheats on others, but things are too big now.

He treated so bad her.. I'm starting to think that I'm too good.
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Re: Angry with women and others

Postby GuessWhat » Thu Jan 03, 2019 12:38 am

Hi guys.
2019 didn't start well.
After that girl, i contacted another one on instagram. Things started well, we went out, i like her and it seems she liked me too. we talked everyday with chat.
Then she had a lot of work to do, so we had dates once per week, but it was ok. Until she seemed very far from me.
We never had sex, but the conditions was never good. So the 22th dec i was decided. We would have go out for a dinner, i would have give her xmas gift, we would have sex.
The same she deleted all 'cause she was sick (that wasn't the first time -_- ) i was really annoyed, but ok, i stayed calm.
on xmas i asked again for a date, she declined 'cause she had stuff to do, but then she went to the cinema.
on 26th she invited me to her home, in order to meet her friends. She gave my xmas gift and i gave her too. in the end only one girl remained, and when she was saying that she'd have leave, "my" girl blocked her.
the 29th i asked again her for a date, but still nothing.
the 31th i asked if we would have meet for a while, in order to stay a little together for the new year. She declined again, i was really annoying, anyone could understand, but i just say that it was ok. And that is the last time I heard her. By her instagram stories i saw she was with her friend from the last time and a co-worker (and she said to me), but then looks like another guy was there, one i didn't know. But i don't wanna be paranoid (but yes, i think there's something).
It just passed 2 days, but we used to chat everyday, and she isn't watching my instagram stories anymore, I gave her a like yesterday and stop.

It's over. I'm destroyed, my depression took me over, yesterday I cried.
I'm dedicating myself to walkings, to cooking, i'm writing fan ficiton, I followed every hints, but there's no cure for the lack of love.
I'm tired of this, i'm tired to read other girls saying that it's my fault cause i'm passive aggressive, or some $#%^ like this. it's my fault cause i spent money and energy on her and in return i have nothing. that she was in the right to close this (yeah ok, the damage is mine), etc.
They are just wrong, they will never understand what a man feel.
I tried my best with this one, and the best brought to this.
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