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GF 51 yr old, never married, has RAD

Postby twinsig » Fri Feb 13, 2015 3:25 pm

Hello, new here and trying to find some info & advice.
My GF has an Attachment Disorder and I really don't know what to do, except to move-on, but im quite fond of her and care about her wellbeing, etc...all I really know is she lost here dad in a fatal accident at age 8, she is sort of a hoarder/pack-rat but I really don't care about that.
We came to a point in our relationship where she "disappeared", a point when I expressed my own deeper feelings that I have for her. Now she wont contact me unless I call or text then its only to briefly reply. Went through Christmas weekend no return call at all! This post may seem petty or insignificant but her issues are not.
Trying to be brief...
What do you folks think, advice?

Thanks for your time and attention, have a great day!
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Re: GF 51 yr old, never married, has RAD

Postby Bill4315 » Sat Feb 14, 2015 1:47 am

Sorry to hear about your troubles. It sounds like you would be best to move on to someone else (easier said than done I know).
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Re: GF 51 yr old, never married, has RAD

Postby bela123 » Wed Jul 08, 2015 10:29 pm

How did you meet your girlfriend?
Low self esteem, shy, trouble in raciocinating, etc.
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Re: GF 51 yr old, never married, has RAD

Postby Nambo » Wed Nov 16, 2016 10:35 pm

Thats what I do, soon as somebody seems to want some sort of deeper attachment, I run a mile, can no longer abide them, thats why I am 58 and never had a relationship longer than a couple of months.
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