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Rape trauma syndrome

Postby MSBLUE » Tue Jun 20, 2006 10:27 pm

What is Rape Trauma Syndrome?

By:
Desirée Hansson
(in collaboration with the Lawyers for Human Rights)




INTRODUCTION

Many people experience physical, psychological and behavioural problems after suffering a serious trauma like losing someone they love or being disabled in a car accident. These problems have been called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This condition is a normal reaction to abnormal stress. People who have not previously had a mental illness or psychological problems can suffer Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

Different kinds of traumas can produce different reactions. Take rape for example: Rape is not just unwanted sex, it is a highly traumatic experience and like other serious traumas, it has negative effects on those who survive it. Rape is usually experienced as life threatening and as an extreme violation of a person. It is not surprising then, that many rape survivors suffer from a particular kind of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, known as Rape Trauma Syndrome:

PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS OF RAPE TRAUMA SYNDROME

Immediately after a rape, survivors often experience shock: they are likely to feel cold, faint, become mentally confused (disoriented), tremble, feel nauseous and sometimes vomit.
Pregnancy.
Gynaecological problems like: irregular, heavier and/or painful periods, vaginal discharges, bladder infections, sexually transmitted diseases like syphilis, gonorrhoea and/or AIDS.
Bleeding and/or infections from tears or cuts in the vagina or rectum, depending on what happened during the rape.
A soreness of the body. There may also be bruising, grazes, cuts etc, depending on the kind of force used during a rape.
Nausea and/or vomiting.
Throat irritations and/or soreness due to forced oral sex.
Tension headaches.
Pain in the lower back and/or in the stomach.
Sleep disturbances like: difficulty falling asleep, waking up during the night, being woken by nightmares about the rape, getting less sleep than usual; or on the other hand feeling exhausted and needing to sleep more than usual.
Eating disturbances such as: not feeling like eating, eating less than usual and so losing weight; or on the other hand eating more than usual and so putting on weight.
BEHAVIOURAL SYMPTOMS OF RAPE TRAUMA SYNDROME

Crying more than usual.
Difficulty concentrating.
Being restless, agitated and unable to relax; or on the other hand just sitting around and moving very little.
Not wanting to go out and/or socialise; or on the other hand socialising more than usual.
Not wanting to be left alone.
Stuttering or stammering more than usual.
Trying to avoid anything that reminds the survivor of the rape. So for example, someone who was raped at a party may stop going to parties. Many rape survivors don't want to talk about what happened, because it makes them remember the rape.
Being more easily frightened or startled than usual. Rape survivors often get very scared when someone walks up behind them without warning.
Being very alert and watchful.
Getting very upset by minor things that didn't worry them before the rape.
Losing interest in things that used to be of interest to them before the rape.
Problems in relationships with people like family, friends, lovers and spouses. Rape survivors may become irritable and so may quarrel with others more easily; or they may withdraw from people with whom they had been close before the rape. They may also become very dependent on others, or on the other hand overly independent.
Sexual problems like a fear of sex, a loss of interest in sex or a loss of sexual pleasure.
Changes in work or school such as: dropping out of school, truanting from school, changing jobs, or stopping work altogether.
Moving house.
Increased use of substances like alcohol, cigarettes and/or drugs. A person who didn't use a substance before the rape may start to use it after a rape.
Increased washing and/or bathing, because of a feeling of being dirty from the rape.
Acting as if the rape never happened. It is quite common for rape survivors to try and carry on with their lives as if nothing has happened, because they don't want to face their feelings about the rape. This is called denial.
PSYCHOLOGICAL SYMPTOMS OF RAPE TRAUMA SYNDROME

Intrusive thoughts about the rape that upset the rape survivor.
Intrusive thoughts and feelings about being dirty from (contaminated by) the rape. These feelings often make rape survivors wash or bath more frequently. These thoughts are known as obsessional thoughts.
Flashbacks - the sudden feeling that the rape is happening again, which makes the survivor very frightened and upset.
Nightmares about the rape.
Being very upset by anything that reminds the survivor of the rape.
Becoming extremely afraid of certain things that remind the survivor of the rape. Such extreme fears are called phobias. Rape survivors often develop extreme fears of men, of strangers, of being alone, of leaving their homes, of going to school or to work, and of sex. These phobias are called traumatophobias, because they are caused by a trauma.
A loss of memory for all or part of the rape, which is called psychogenic amnesia.
Being unable to feel certain feelings like happiness, or feeling very 'flat'. On the other hand, rape survivors can feel emotionally confused and have mood swings (quick changes of mood).
Feeling that they will not live for very long and/or feeling very negative about their future prospects.
Feeling depressed and/or sad, and sometimes having thoughts of suicide.
Feeling irritable and angry.
Feeling more fearful and anxious than usual. Rape survivors are often very afraid that their assailant/s will return, that they may be pregnant or have been infected with a disease from the rape.
Feelings of humiliation and shame.
Feeling different and/or distant from other people.
Feelings of guilt and self-blame about the rape. Rape survivors often feel that they were somehow responsible for being raped.
Feelings of helplessness and powerlessness.
A loss of self respect and self confidence. Many rape survivors feel that the rape has made them worth less than other people.
Human beings respond to trauma in different ways. Although many rape survivors suffer from the symptoms of Rape Trauma Syndrome, not all survivors respond to rape in the same way - some rape survivors may have none of these symptoms and others may suffer only a few. Therefore, if a person experiences many of the symptoms of Rape Trauma Syndrome, it is highly likely that s/he has been raped; but if a person claims to have been raped, yet experiences none of these symptoms, or only a few, it is not a sign that s/he has not actually been raped. Because most rape survivors are afraid to tell anyone that they have been raped, any person who claims to have been raped, should be treated as if they have been raped.

It is important to treat each rape survivor as an individual and to try and understand what the rape means to that particular person. A person's religion, culture, class, race and gender may affect how they feel about being raped. The impact of a rape may be worse if the victim is physically or mentally handicapped, if they were raped by more than one person, or on more than one occasion; and/or if they were raped by someone they knew. Coping with being rape may also be more difficult if family, friends and colleagues are not supportive and/or blame the survivor.

Rape survivors seem to experience different symptoms of Rape Trauma Syndrome over time. In the first couple of days immediately after a rape, a survivor usually experiences a state of shock. After this shock has passed, some survivors try to act as if nothing has happened. This is their way of trying to block out the rape, because they feel that they won't be able to cope if they let themselves remember what happened to them. So, they may look as if they have not been affected by the rape. This has been called the stage of denial or pseudo-adjustment.

However, if a rape survivor is going to recover well from the impact of a rape, s/he must let her/himself remember the rape and feel whatever s/he is feeling inside. When s/he does start remembering and feeling, s/he will also start suffering from symptoms, but these usually improve gradually over time. It often helps a survivor to have counselling if s/he is experiencing symptoms that upset her/him.

The effects of rape are long term. Rape survivors never forget being raped, but many learn how to deal with the memory. Studies have shown that the symptoms suffered by a rape survivor three months after a rape usually continue over the next three to four years, although they do seem to improve over time. Rape survivors who have strong self-esteem before being raped, those who have good relationships with people and those who have few major changes in their fives in the year, before a rape; seem to recover more quickly from the effects of rape.

Rape Trauma Syndrome has been introduced in court cases overseas in a number of ways: to corroborate a victim's claim that s/he did not consent to having sex; to explain a rape survivor's poor memory about a rape; and to help the court decide on a sentence for a rapist. The negative effects of rape are not yet widely known or recognised in South Africa. Many of our courts are still operating under the false impression that rape is merely unwanted sex and therefore, that it does not damage rape survivors especially in the long term. Rape Trauma Syndrome is only now being introduced as evidence in South African courts.
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Postby Butterfly Faerie » Wed Jun 21, 2006 3:20 am

double post hon, lol but that's ok.


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Postby MSBLUE » Wed Jun 21, 2006 3:54 am

it applied to two forums.

rape, and ptsd nos. '

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Postby Butterfly Faerie » Thu Jun 22, 2006 1:04 am

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Oops I guess I wasn't paying much attention. Sorry...lol.
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Postby MSBLUE » Thu Jun 22, 2006 1:28 am

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Love ya, lil sista
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Re: Rape trauma syndrome

Postby barnaby » Mon Oct 04, 2010 10:12 pm

Hi, this is certainly interesting and has changed my view on how I am at the moment. I thought I was just over thinking, over complicating and over reacting now I don't.
I was raped repeatedly over a long period of time (decades it seems), the first rape was 47 years ago, but it is recent breaking news for me.
Now I relive the rapes which is rather inconvenient to say the least. Physical re enactment is not on your list of symptoms but a lot of my other symptoms are. At the moment I am having far too many problems to list without sounding like an index, the greatest one being fear that something will set me off at work. Not good form in a board meeting, especially as no one there knows.
I was beginning to think I had wrapped it all up into some kind of wierd non pleasurable sexual fantasy, which may be partly true, who can say. For a time, before I realised the extent and extraordinarily complicated methodology behind it all I was the personification of an urban myth, it happened out the blue in the midst of weeping and I actually kind of got gratification from it. For about a millisecond I smiled about it. Now it just hurts and is not helping in the least.
I will now take careful note of my symptoms, stop passing them off as hysteria try and think my way out of this dilemma and see what the therapist says/can do.
I did post a piece on Dissociative amnesia which I think your moderator has blocked because he thinks I am making this up. I assure you I am not (who would want to). I am struggling and alone, that's why I am here. I should point out that it took me a year to get here and I chewed my fingers down to stumps worrying about speaking even anonymously. My trust system is in tatters and the last known unaffected version of me was two. The truth is that fact is often stranger than fiction and half a century ago anything could be hidden behind a facade of respectability. I don't blame anybody, the perpetrator has passed on but the medical profession did me no favours by running for the hills repeatedly. Neither did DID and acquired behavioural triggers, or the telephone for that matter, even though it was DID that saved me ultimately.
So give me a break guys, the smiley writing is a front I don't need to tell you how scared I am of everything that walks, talks or breathes, especially if it wears trousers and calls itself mr.
Thanks again for the information.
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Re: Rape trauma syndrome

Postby benedictus57 » Wed Dec 15, 2010 4:11 pm

Interesting study even though much is based upon theoretical empirical study of only a number of concluding rape cases.

MSBLUE wrote;
The effects of rape are long term. Rape survivors never forget being raped, but many learn how to deal with the memory. Studies have shown that the symptoms suffered by a rape survivor three months after a rape usually continue over the next three to four years, although they do seem to improve over time. Rape survivors who have strong self-esteem before being raped, those who have good relationships with people and those who have few major changes in their fives in the year, before a rape; seem to recover more quickly from the effects of rape.


These findings however; are based on
("Rape survivors who have strong self-esteem before being raped")
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It speaks very little about the majority of rape and incest victims who lack the skills of "Self Esteem"
I strongly believe "Self Esteem" from an individual involved in a Skills Group in a Psychotherapy setting has to be believed within oneself before a victim of rape or incest can move on past their stigmatized traumatic past.

Over the years I've been in several semesters of Skills Group psychotherapy that taught "Self Esteem".
Nothing in this Group setting ever broached the idea of Rape Victim or Incest sufferers as if a taboo subject. Demographically depending where one lives; some smaller cities have NO exclusive Skills Group where only rape or incest victims exist.
How does a isolated Rape or Incest victim thrown inside a mixed Skills Group setting ("Identify") with other psychologically disturbed clients from every walk of life who are not victims of rape or incest victims.

Its so damned easy and convenient for shrinks to throw victims of rape and incest into a mixed therapy group and expect them to swallow and digest everything they speak about when one has a difficult time identifying how it applies to there own suffering and stigma. I get so damned pissed off and frustrated at times. I've spoken to several psychiatrists and psychologists about this.
You might as well talk to a blasted confounded wall. And then it makes you feel worse as if your some slow learner who belongs in kindergarten class. Sorry if I feel this way. I have NO Self Esteem because I have NO Sexual Identity.

Some shrinks I believe don't have the required training faculty to help some victims of rape and incest.

Peace
Chris
It takes courage to live through suffering; and it takes honesty to observe it. C. S. Lewis
To love means loving the unlovable. To forgive means pardoning the unpardonable. Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless.
G. K. Chesterton.
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Re: Rape trauma syndrome

Postby RaiMaree » Mon Aug 22, 2011 12:23 am

Wow, this sounds a lot like me.
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Re: Rape trauma syndrome

Postby ukan » Sun Sep 23, 2018 6:04 pm

RaiMaree wrote:Wow, this sounds a lot like me.


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