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by My Sick Brain » Wed Jan 07, 2009 11:35 pm
I like young girls. Am I a pedophile?
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by YarlSoutan » Wed Jan 07, 2009 11:44 pm
If your mocking me im gonna be angry. If your serious, no, liking young girls in a purely non-sexual way does not make you a pedophile.
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Can make a Heaven of Hell, a Hell of Heaven."
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by My Sick Brain » Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:00 am
YarlSoutan wrote:If your mocking me im gonna be angry. If your serious, no, liking young girls in a purely non-sexual way does not make you a pedophile.
I do find myself sexually attracted to some adolescent girls.
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by Butterfly Faerie » Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:09 am
Then that is what you are a pedophile.
You said you've had sexual interest or feelings, have you acted upon them?
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by My Sick Brain » Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:15 am
Butterfly Faerie wrote:Then that is what you are a pedophile.
You said you've had sexual interest or feelings, have you acted upon them?
No, I could never actually molest a child. The guilt and shame would be too much for me to handle.
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by My Sick Brain » Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:30 am
Butterfly Faerie wrote:Have you discussed this with anyone ?
No, not yet. I'm supposed to go back to therapy next week to deal with my depression and panic attacks. But I'm afraid to share this with my therapist.
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by Butterfly Faerie » Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:39 am
I think it's extremely important that you tell your therapist about the attraction to girls and about the fantasy's of rape as well, it's not normal to have those feelings towards anyone young.
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by My Sick Brain » Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:45 am
Butterfly Faerie wrote:I think it's extremely important that you tell your therapist about the attraction to girls and about the fantasy's of rape as well, it's not normal to have those feelings towards anyone young.
I know. But I'm afraid they'll lock me up and throw away the key.
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by Butterfly Faerie » Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:48 am
I don't think they'll do that, but if those thoughts are there eventually there could be urges.
Are you 100% sure you'd never rape a girl or molest a child?
Honestly ?
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