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someone to help me with child issues

Postby someone_online8 » Mon Dec 07, 2015 5:50 pm

When I was 11 (male) and my cousin 9 (female) she came up with a "game" in which, while playing videogames laying on our stomaches next to each other in the bedroom's bed, she got on top of me and then we switched positions so I got on top of her, (always by laying in our stomaches), I felt sexual pleasure so I used to rub my penis on her rear, disguising it as some kind of "new" game I came up with, she said nothing, never complained, and even so, she asked me to repeat it whenever we had the chance to (which used to happen always when laying on a bed while watching movies or TV; playing videogames, or something).
I used to "cum" whenever I did those things, but obviously at that age, there were no fluids, just pleasure. My question is... did my cousin asked it because she felt the same? or it really was some kind of twisted children game? I don't think she remembers now, she never accused me or something, but I'm really curious, though I'm afraid of bringing that subject up. Please help, as I really want to solve this out.
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Re: someone to help me with child issues

Postby The_Ghoul » Thu Dec 10, 2015 4:39 am

innocent childhood games , relax and don't be so hard on yourself
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Re: someone to help me with child issues

Postby Prairie gal » Fri Dec 11, 2015 5:50 am

Since the age difference between you was only 2 years, and you did not FORCE her to do anything sexual, it is not considered abuse.

No need to worry about it.
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