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Can you be extremely attracted to a girl and lose your libido at the same time

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Is it possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old girl?

Postby brian464 » Sun Mar 02, 2014 11:03 pm

She is so beautiful and looks so innocent. I am intrigued and want to be her tutor, just to be able to talk to her .

I know its a spiritual attraction because whenever she brings up the subject of sex, all I can think of is "wow, an angel is talking to me ".

The reason its not sexual is because whenever I am with her, my libido drops like a stone.

I want to be with her all the time but

the libido is non-existent, its like she turns me off sexually

Thanks to her,

I have completely lost my desire for sex,

my desire for alcohol and porn are completely gone and

so I know I am not physically attracted to her.

I was thinking the other day, if all Catholic priests have a girl like this, they should be able to abstain from sex or sexual contact, for the rest of their lives

what specifically can therapy solve since she solved all my vices ?
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Re: Is it possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old girl?

Postby guest0929 » Mon Mar 03, 2014 3:28 pm

I understand exactly what you mean. A lot of men who have expressed an attraction to little girls (including myself) have noted the same experiences. It's not a sexual attraction per se, and as you said, we don't even think about sex or porn when we are with them. In fact, the opposite, we only think about all the ideals and desires of a pure, innocent, loving relationship. I think the reason is many young girls embody that sort of "state" we wish to be in and have in our lives. We're refreshed by their innocent minds, warm hearts, honest words, wonder, sweetness of everything good about life and about humanity (when these days we seem to have less faith in humanity). Little kids (in this case girls), just seem to exude the aura of everything beautiful and desirable in pure and unadulterated ways. So no matter the age, who couldn't be attracted to someone who exudes this? Now in my case, I can't deny there isn't sexual attraction, but I never ever think about having sex or anything of that sort. It's just the embedded physical affectionate intimacy every person human longs for....simply to have "contact". Holding my hand, nudging my arm, putting her head on my shoulder, a hug, all the usual things in a healthy physical relationship, and those things rolled into one, just seem to wipe away all the pains, worries, negativity of life. Like an angel, she makes you believe again, and believe that you can accomplish and do anything in life. She makes you courageous, bold, and confident to tackle all of life's problems and obstacles it sends your way. She fills your heart, mind, and soul with HOPE. Hope for a better life, a better future, for a love. Yes, if she invokes this in you, it is most definitely possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old adorable attractive little girl!
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Re: Is it possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old girl?

Postby sprooglestrewft » Mon Mar 03, 2014 5:13 pm

Yes, little girls can do this to you. It's common for me to experience romantic longing for girls without sexual arousal, and in many cases like this I do not want to have sex with them, but to share intimacy instead. Now in my case the type of intimacy I would like from them is still viewed as inappropriate between an adult and a child.
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Re: Is it possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old girl?

Postby YouthRightsRadical » Tue Mar 04, 2014 1:08 am

Of course it's possible. It happened to you. It hasn't happened to me, but that doesn't make your experience any less real.
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Re: Is it possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old girl?

Postby Gemini_Incarnate » Tue Mar 04, 2014 2:00 am

It seems perfectly reasonable to me. With me, I am incapable of sexual attraction to a real person unless I know them well and we've spent time together. When I see a cute girl, my first thoughts are "I wish I could hold her", never "I wish I could see her naked". Perhaps it is the same with you.
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Re: Is it possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old girl?

Postby Endymion » Tue Mar 04, 2014 10:42 pm

Libido is just one aspect of sexuality.
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Re: Is it possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old girl?

Postby pedo_dido » Wed Mar 05, 2014 8:47 am

sprooglestrewft wrote:Yes, little girls can do this to you. It's common for me to experience romantic longing for girls without sexual arousal, and in many cases like this I do not want to have sex with them, but to share intimacy instead. Now in my case the type of intimacy I would like from them is still viewed as inappropriate between an adult and a child.


This is true. There is this girl that I have a big crush on. She's about 8, I'm 29. I tried to fantasize about her sexually, like coital, but I just can't get an erection. I just want to play games with her, hug her, watch movies with her, and just stare at her beauty. I also want to share intimacy with her. That intimacy would also be considered inappropriate.
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Re: Is it possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old girl?

Postby brian464 » Mon May 12, 2014 9:55 am

pedo_dido wrote: I tried to fantasize about her sexually, like coital, but I just can't get an erection. .


I remember being 16 and the girl was 16 too and wearing a really short dress and I was sitting on the front porch steps and she was standing right next to me.

I think she wanted to see my reaction.

I could have easily seen what panties she was wearing but all I could think of is some fantasy of us being married and having kids and not once was I tempted to see what she was wearing under her very short dress.

I think spiritual love can make a person's libido plummet
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Re: Is it possible to be intrigued by an 8 year old girl?

Postby HowardCL » Tue May 13, 2014 9:58 pm

I guess you really don't have to worry about Catholic priests being drawn to young girls when majority of them are attracted to 8 yo boys, lol. I have never been in the situation that you have been, I have been that way when feelings are towards adults, I lose all sexual interest in adults and my main sexual interest is in young children.
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