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Postby ThisEndUp » Mon Dec 16, 2019 3:20 am

I can't find any hoarding topics on this whole website, unless I am looking in the wrong place. Anyway, I figured OCD was closely related. Is anyone a hoarder?? I know 2 hoarders and they are tough cookies to crack, not big talkers about their feelings and I was curious about that.

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Re: Hoarding

Postby thegentlepath » Tue Dec 24, 2019 7:39 pm

Yes. Are you? Why are you trying to crack these cookies?
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Re: Hoarding

Postby ThisEndUp » Thu Jan 02, 2020 4:13 am

thegentlepath wrote:Yes. Are you? Why are you trying to crack these cookies?


hmmm that's a good question
I find people fascinating in general I guess
but also with hoarders I guess I have a real disconnect- I just don't understand it & I want to.
I am not a hoarder at all
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Re: Hoarding

Postby thegentlepath » Thu Jan 02, 2020 11:05 pm

Well. :) I am a third generation hoarder & I don’t understand it either.
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Re: Hoarding

Postby thegentlepath » Wed Jan 29, 2020 4:48 pm

From my limited understanding, hoarding is a grief response. A way of coping with loss. A way to seek Control. Emotional boundaries are poor, so we must make physical boundaries. Untreated depression. Self-esteem issues. Our emotional selves are stunted, so we must express ourselves through clutter. We can’t say I love you, so we give each other clutter. Being middle-aged & elderly doesn’t help—clutter accumulates. Is that helpful?

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Plus we see 2 million uses per one object; hence, everything is “useful”.

As far as those hoarders that poop on their own floor go, (pun intended :x ). My personal theory is they’re incapable of asking for professional help when the plumbing in their hoarded house inevitably fails.
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Re: Hoarding

Postby Tyler » Thu Jan 30, 2020 12:34 pm

"I'm not a hoarder, I'm a collector!" is what I used to tell people. A collector is just a hoarder who thinks their hoard has value. Lots of stuff I hoard, but it's all stuff I can use for entertainment. Have I used it for entertainment? Here and there, but not overall. My book collection, for example. I have hundreds of books. I can count on one hand how many of them I've read.
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Re: Hoarding

Postby thegentlepath » Tue Feb 04, 2020 9:23 pm

I asked the 2nd generation hoarder why we hoard & they said: “We love our Things!” :lol:
Hope that’s helpful. :lol:
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Re: Hoarding

Postby thegentlepath » Tue Feb 11, 2020 3:38 pm

We want to have things, but we don’t want to take care of the things we have. Neglect is huge.
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Re: Hoarding

Postby Snaga » Fri Feb 14, 2020 2:51 am

thegentlepath wrote:We want to have things, but we don’t want to take care of the things we have. Neglect is huge.


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Re: Hoarding

Postby Tyler » Fri Feb 14, 2020 4:52 am

Snaga wrote:
thegentlepath wrote:We want to have things, but we don’t want to take care of the things we have. Neglect is huge.


Yeah that's me.


Me too. Thousands spent of comic books. Do I take care of them? Nope.
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