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Hurting and Traumatised

Hi, I’ve got a lot on my chest.
For those who haven’t read my last post, my ex girlfriend cheated on me and she lied and hurt me so badly and she was a narcissist towards me, abusing me and lying to me and breaking my heart and trust. It’s me that has to live with the pain she inflicted on me. I have mild autism and I feel and overthink things personally and I ...
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Trauma

Hi everyone.
I’m still trying to get over what my ex girlfriend did to me. She was a narcissist who cheated on me and she lied and hurt me so badly. At one point we had an argument where she reduced me to tears because I thought another woman looked pretty but I would never cheat on her. Then we had another argument where she accused me of not wanting to meet up during lockdown ...
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Feeling like a horrible person.

For the last few months, I have had this horrible feeling that I am pathetic. That everyone hates me. That I'm worthless. That I'm just a child.
It does not let me concentrate because it is all that I think about. It does not let me socialize because I think everyone hates me already.It does not let me do the things I enjoy because I think they are a waste of time or something I ...
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I earned my ego. How can you?

Short answer? Experience. Some have it, Some don't.

Long answer and reasons below. Warning. It's really long.

I had a really bad experience in the past. Pain. Suffering. Death. Suicide, even. Self harm and guilt. No emotions and not caring at all. Insanity. Never did any physical harm to myself but having gone through insanity I can understand why others would. Never harmed anyone but having not cared at all once I can understand why ...
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Advanced procrastination with my studies

Hey Everyone, here is my storie: I'm a student, i should by the end of the year have my bachelor's degree.
The problem is, it took me 5 years( instead of 3) for having this bachelor. Right now i'm supposed to send an application for a Master.
This 2 years doesn't felt like they were usefull, it felt like i was loosing my time mostly. And I failed because i was somekind a master of ...
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Feeling very lonely in college

Hey guys and thanks in advance for reading/responding.

Here's the thing. I'm 23, male, in college. I was bullied a lot in my first 2-3 years of high school to the point of being suicidal, because of my appearance (weak jaw, big ears, mostly). At the time I searched around online and most advice I had was "Yea just develop a sense of humor and a cool personality and it will work". And it did ...
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How can I deal with extreme self-loathing?

I feel like I'm a terrible person. I can't say the reason why but let's say it's just because I have this feeling inside. I just feel like I can't talk to anyone. And it's true. I can't even talk about my problem anywhere and I have been attacked for feeling the way I do and ganged up on for people and made to feel like a bad person. It's hard to explain my situation ...
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How to accept being grotesque?

I am 31yrs old and an extremely grotesque woman. As a child/teenager I was bullied severely on a daily basis (I won’t go into details) but it ruined my life. As a result, every day since then has been a struggle and of course I suffer with anxiety and depression. I have taken nearly every antidepressant under the sun, but the side effects, especially they weight gain and gastro ones cause havoc with my self ...
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Why do some people desperately need an apology?

Some people feel wronged and will not move on with a relationship until they feel the other person is sorry for what they did. Some people will not apologize. I realize that the people who never apologize are suffering from low self-esteem, but why is an apology SO important to some people? Let's assume that the offense is a real one, and that an apology is the right thing to do, in the circumstance, especially ...
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Over-Apologizing and Over-Thanking

Hello all, I suffer from low self-esteem and I wasn't really sure where to put this so I hope this is the right forum. If not, would a moderator please kindly move it to the appropriate forum for me? Sorry, and thanks! ...Wow, well that was just a perfect example of my problems due to low self-esteem! XD

Anyone else suffer from this? I constantly find myself apologizing for every little thing and also thanking ...
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