My wife is becoming more and more distant. Both physically and emotionally. She doesn't seek intimacy and refuses when I seek it. This per se may not mean too much as this may say something about my sub-standard sexual ability. What is more worrying is her emotional withdrawal. She avoids close, intimate conversations, often shuts off. Thinking that she might feel underappreciated, I am trying to show her as much affection as possible: close touch, ...