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Given the unique propensities of those who are faced with the issues of HPD, topics at times may be uncomfortable for non HP readers. Discussions related to HPD behavior are permitted here, within the context of deeper understanding of the commonalties shared by members. Indulging or encouraging these urges is not what this forum is intended for.

Conversations here can be triggering for those who have suffered abuse from HPDs. .
Non HPD users are welcome to post here, But their questions Must have a respectful tone.
If you are a NON and have issues with an past relationship with an HPD person, it is suggested that you Post in a Relationship forum. Here is a link to that forum: relationship/

For those who have no respect for either this illness or for those who are living with it, please do not enter this forum. Discrimination of Personality Disorders is not tolerated on this site.

Moderators are present here to ensure that members treat each other with dignity and respect. If topics become overly graphic or drift from having a healthy perspective, moderators will intervene.
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Hello, I'm Davina 23 years old. I have been suffering from undiagnosed HPD since childhood with my mother having undiagnosed HPD. I also suffer from serve depression anxiety and anorexia. I never realised I had HPD, I just always felt odd. My partner of 5 years first told me about HPD. It all made sense, I'm really embarrassed/ashamed. I get this strong fear of being abandoned, I'm really vague with words can't explain how I'm ...
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WTF - my BFF is HPD - now what?

I’ve never really felt “confused” about a life episode before, but here goes. I’m a happily married man, in my 50s. Until a few days ago, I have believed I just happened to be in the unusual position of being close friends with an attractive, charming, quirky, and much younger female (“Dora”), who is also a manifest “train wreck” mostly due to her own bad decisions. She has burned through many friends, and even more ...
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Small Improvement

I managed to make it through a party without drawing negative attention to myself. I went to a small gathering of about 9 people. There was music and a pool and they were grilling meat. I got into the pool when I was invited in. I swam and floated around mostly quietly as I didn't have much to contribute to the conversation (I never do, and normally this bothers me and triggers anxiety and negative ...
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Aware of my lack of thoughts/feeling fake, unreal

So basically what happens is when Im in a conversation I realize as I'm saying something where those words are coming from. Like I'm pulling them out of nowhere. Like they're not coming from me as a person But rather I'm constructing a thought actively, consciously. When I become aware of this as I'm speaking, I can never complete my thought. Then I just end up trailing off. I am fully conscious of every element ...
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Online false allegations of drink spiking / sex assault


I come to this forum as a NON seeking advice on how best to deal with this situation. I understand that HPD is a serious illness and I have genuine sympathy and respect for people affected by this condition. I need help and advice on how best to react (or not react) to very serious allegations made about me on social media. I

This Summer I went on a couple of dates with a ...
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HDP- Respond or Not?

I met this girl in rehab, first mistake. Once I got out in December we started seeing each other, immediately I saw red flags and told her. She got mad so I let it go. Over the course of the next few months we dated, if you can call it that. I became her sole support system for her alcoholism and she helped me with money. Later accused me of using her even though I ...
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A Non dealing with possible HPD friend/fwb

I'm gay, and I've known this guy for several years now. But in the course of that, I've noticed some very odd behavior from him which I now suspect could be untreated HPD, as my experience with him has been similar to other guys he's been with.

He starts off posting about he's depressed or needs to talk to someone, and then if it's a guy, he tends to come on strong and starts feeling ...
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I´m very tired today

Hi. I have just added myself. My English is not pretty good cause is not my mother language.
Today I spent 1 hour sharp hearing my father on the fone telling only bad thing about other people as always. I did not say a word. The subject changes from one thing to another as it was a continuation of the preview subject. This happens every day more time one time a day.
Two year ago ...
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try fixing low self-esteem

Hi there,

My ex with HPD gave me a lot of mental errors in the past :lol:
non of them made sense and I can't stand stuff or situations that I don't get and not knowing why things are the way they are. In the beginning I still was crazy in love at her when I started my search for answers... Next phase I wanted to be ...
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Non-sister trying to stabilize relationship with HPD?

Hi- I'm new here and hoping this forum might be able to help me stabilize my relationship with my sister.

First I am not sure if she is HPD. Some of the things I have read seem uncanny to her personality. She has always needed to be the center of attention. Times where I naturally must be the center of attention she does everything she can to bring it back to her(my wedding- her maid ...
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