I’ve never really felt “confused” about a life episode before, but here goes. I’m a happily married man, in my 50s. Until a few days ago, I have believed I just happened to be in the unusual position of being close friends with an attractive, charming, quirky, and much younger female (“Dora”), who is also a manifest “train wreck” mostly due to her own bad decisions. She has burned through many friends, and even more ...