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Given the unique propensities of those who are faced with the issues of HPD, topics at times may be uncomfortable for non HP readers. Discussions related to HPD behavior are permitted here, within the context of deeper understanding of the commonalties shared by members. Indulging or encouraging these urges is not what this forum is intended for.

Conversations here can be triggering for those who have suffered abuse from HPDs. .
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Hi Everyone,

I've surfed psych and psych disorder sites for years, and have had fleeting infatuations with several different disorders and other diagnosis that I never received. For the best, too, because I always realize later that I'd been making a mountain out of a molehill. I never thought I'd make an account on one of these websites myself -- let alone post. Not until I properly looked into HPD today.

The reason for my ...
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When NPD causes too much pain to HPD: how can I stop it?


My first post here. I met a girl two months ago and I’m *not* here to ask how to get her, how to forget her or how to heal after her. Instead, I’d appreciate some help on how I could stop making her suffer so much and I have a few specific questions if you don’t mind.

Little background:
Me and this girl met two months ago at the place where she works and ...
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I’m just gonna share my thoughts for a bit.

I’m ruining my own life. I have dreams, fantasies, about being a performer. But I’m about 80 lbs overweight and not very attractive in my opinion. And I don’t work toward that goal; I just daydream about it. Kind of depressing when you think about the main thing I do once I get home from work is sing and dance, pretending I’m doing it on a ...
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Hi I'm new here

I've been wondering for a very long while that I have HPD and the last nail on the coffin was that a girl who I know said that I'm hard to grasp cause I have such a impressionistic way of speech.

Other symptoms:

I have orgasm dysfunction in the way that penis works just fine, but the orientation towards the orgasm is all wrong and it becomes not that pleasant experience. It could be compared ...
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HPD friend/depression/devaluation

So I have, or had a pretty intense friendship with a woman I met about two years ago. I'm gay, she's not, and I'll readily admit I have more tender feelings for her, even though I also have known from day one there'll never be anything in that area. But knowing that, we made for great friends, warm and loving. I think. When I met her, she was married, but in the midst of ...
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I am pretty certain I have HPD...

Hey! I'm 21, female, and I have had thoughts that I may have HPD throughout my adult life. I don't know if I'm looking at my personality traits in completely the wrong way but I'm going to briefly run through my reasoning as to why I think I do.

When I was 13-15 I was sexually abused more than once and since then my intimate relationships have always been very strange.

I am very manipulative ...
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HPDs actually are aware during arguments

I've been lurking for quite a while in these parts because I had the misfortune of dating a BPD and a BPD/Histrionic with some Narc traits. The first woman painted me black permanently because I had the foresight to save all chat history with her and when she threatened to smear me to my friends I told her about the archive of chats I had since the beginning and the narc injury is too much ...
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Histrionic Best Friend Cured My Narcissism

I grew up with a mother who suffered from Narcissistic personality disorder. She was the introverted type and so it was subtle. As a child she went to Grammar School but was from a very poor family and so it was a big thing when she passed the 11+. She was always more intelligent than her brothers and sisters and was put on a pedestal by her dad who taught her that she was special, ...
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HPD men? Question from a NON

Have you ever went back to an ex that you ended it with? And is it typical that an HPD not make a clean break but leave the door open so the Non is confused if it's actually over? I'm guessing this is to keep the supply in place. What is it that will make you want to stay in contact?

I am almost positive my ex has HPD and he kept saying I will ...
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Suspected HPD's on social media?

I'll start- YouTuber Tammy Hembrow.

Uncomfortable when not the centre of attention, easily offended, seductive behaviour followed by go away (push pull).

Decide for yourself, I think she exemplifies exactly.
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