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I know a family that seems very loving but none of the adult kids have ever moved out or worked. They’re almost 40. The mother is not abusive, she’s intrusive. Constant unsolicited advise, calling/texting all the time, paying for the children’s cars, insurance and phone bills. No one in this family ever mentions having a problem with the dependence of their adult children so I have to assume the parents like it. She cooks dinner ...

(Before post my question i just wanna say that i'm totally new to this forum and forums in general so if this post is in the wrong part of the forum please move to the right part, i need some help to change my username aswell :p)

Hey hey! my name is Pedro, i'm 16 years old and i'm from LIsbon, Portugal! i have diagnosed ADHD and Asperger syndrome since i'm 2/3 years old and ...

My SO has HPD. I told her on Thursday that I was done and going NC. On Friday morning, she turned up at my doorstep with a serious knee injury, having taken a fall (she does tend to fall a lot because of another non-related issue with her vision. After a few minutes talking, she suddenly said, "I know you think I probably did this on purpose", although I hadn't thought it at all until ...

Hello, I just discovered than the 3 year old ex-gf that has been "disturbing" me for 3 years has HPD, she meets all the "checks", and she attempted suicide 2 weeks ago more or less, I was able to be her "saviour" on that one, she didn't do anything lethal but she ended up in hospital because I had to call an ambulance, now she began a psychiatric and psychologist treatment, the problem comes here, ...

Hi Everyone,

I have a challenge that I need to solve. My mother-in-law was diagnosed with BPD about 1 year ago after she convinced my wife to hand over a large sum of money and lie for the last 20+ years about having medical issues. When I met my wife, I had a feeling that my mother-in-law had issues but my wife always believed her mother. I confronted the situation a year ago which in ...

Hello everyone,

I would say am happy to be here but am not really.
I have been in a relationship with a Narcissist for the past 8 months, just ending it.
It is hard as the toxic relation keeps me tight to her, anyway.
I am writing to you for an advice if I should tell the cheating husbands wife about my GF having se everyday with him.

He has been my former employer and ...

My girlfriend and myself sometimes have disagreements which is normal for most couples. She will be grumpy and withdrawn after such an incident. The problem is that her withdrawal may last a week or so or at times even a few months. When she is in this state (I call it the WALL), no actions from me seem to work. If I maintain a withdrawn attitude similar to hers, it increases the degree of her ...

My girlfriend and myself sometimes have disagreements which is normal for most couples. She will be grumpy and withdrawn after such an incident. The disagreement could stem from a personal matter or something as trivial as "I don't like a TV personality that she does". The problem is that her withdrawal may last a week or so or at times even a few months. This is extremely debilitating to the relationship and has a huge ...

First, hello. New here. I hope this is the right place. Mostly need to get this off my chest, and maybe one or two of you have dealt with something similar?

I have a friend (also is a coworker) I'm having a tough time with recently. If it's important, he's mid-40s. The anger started showing back in June, and I've seen it a couple other times (it's been directed at me). First was when I ...

Hi there,

first of all I apologize for my English, I’m from Germany, but I hope you’ll understand my problem. Thanks for helping me!

3 months ago I met a a very kind and lovely man (we met online) from the UK, he was the very first man in my 31 years who gave me so much.. from the first day on we understood each other so good, because both of us were going through ...