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Am I an abuser or am I being abused

Trigger warning domestic violence I guess

Im an adult first of all. In my early 20s. I lived out of home for a while but atm im living there for financial reasons but lately my dads been getting really abusive again and he’s telling me that it’s me and I don’t know why I can’t leave I feel like such an idiot because I already hurt so much but I think he brainwashes me

My ...
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I Miss my Abusive/Mentally Ill Mother

Quick background: I realize today that although well-regarded and very intelligent, my mother is somewhat mentally ill. She is narcissist and her mother was too, but not to me. My father felt stuck and projected all his anger towards my mother onto me (I was scapegoated). My mother joined him in this. I was 13.

I got well when I was 43. They and everyone just sort of had to accept this. I wasn’t aware ...
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Confusing behavior of lady friend in DV situation

I've known a woman for 7 years. When first met via work she was single (divorced) and she definitely grew a crush on me. For many months we kindled a friendship and it was immediately comfortable like we were boyfriend/girlfriend, in contact in person or through text morning to night. At first I wasn't sure I wanted a relationship, but she got to my heart and then I started to feel weird that we only ...
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Girlfriend just smashed our Xbox to pieces

Hi there, i woke up today to the sound of yelling and loud crashing sound coming from the garage. I found my girlfriend stomping on her sons Xbox. I tried to stop her but it was too late, the game console was so smashed up i barely recognized it. She said that she was tired of him cutting school and smoking pot. Has anyone been through this situation before. Smashing things as a final punishment. ...
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Am I crazy? Am I abusive like he says? Or is he abusing me?

I don't know what to do anymore...I have Borderline personality disorder that is in remission (if that is possible). I have worked very hard to change how I view things and relationships in my life, I have worked hard to be able to stop running away from my problems...
The issue is that my husband has some sort of mental illness too...he seems to think he can control everything about me, but then he can't ...
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Tempted to move in with verbally abusive woman

I was raised by a domineering mother who was verbally abusive. She was always yelling at me, talking down to me condescendingly and saying hurtful things to me. I'm not sure if it's considered being physically abusive but she frequently spanked me..often for no good reason..she would just fly off the handle. She was a high functioning alcoholic and yes she was all the meaner after a few drinks.

So here it is a couple ...
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More twists than a soap opera- advice wanted!

Hi there,
So my story is complicated, but I’m going to try to keep it as simple as possible.
I was in what I thought was only an extremely emotionally abusive relationship for nearly three years. I’ve recently uncovered memories, as well as videos taken by him, that indicate I’ve repressed some incidents of physical violence as well.
In Dec of 2016, when I had been struggling with drinking and was attempting to be sober(which ...
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Stress is getting too much

Been with my partner 9 years. She is 20 years younger than me. Verbal abuse and ageism is unbearable. The last two years, I have had cancer. Then got sepsis, mainlky through stress, and now, through my cancer treatment, type one diabetes. The abuse has got worse, as have the threats of violence. Don't know what to do.
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Narcissistic Family

I read that women in domestic violence usually have their self esteem totally stripped away and that this is why it is so hard for them to find a job and create a new like. That it takes a great amount of courage for them to break away.

What I heard this, I felt that I could relate so well to this scenario. My problems are not with a partner but with a family of ...
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Abusing psycho ex gf threatening me

So recently my ex gf started calling me again and she is threatening/blackmailing me saying if I don't get back together with her, she will sue me for "raping", which didn't happen.
what should I do...
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