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What happened to this place?

Postby easiersaidthandone » Tue Mar 29, 2022 11:41 am

It’s barren, deserted.

Hopefully, this means you’ve moved on with your lives and become better, more mature and wise adults.

Some things you will always struggle with, and that’s ok. Struggling is what reminds us that we are alive.

Imagine a life without struggle, with no hardships. Without pain.

A life filled with comfort makes a soft vulnerable brain.

Perhaps you were dealt a bad hand. Most of us were. Our brains have calloused and hardened from our hardships. Making you stronger, much stronger than those who’ve been cuddled all their lives.

But at the same time, it has also made you develop toxic and dysfunctional behaviors that keep you down. Patterns that destroy those around you, but most importantly of all, yourself.

Whether you agree with that or not will depend on how willing you are to gaze into the darkness of your mind. Can you accept the truth about yourself? Or do you still desire to cling unto your defense mechanics to protect you from the harsh reality that is your life?

Because relying on your defense mechanisms to block out the bitter truths is the same as the person who lives life in ignorant comfort. The same as a person who forever stagnates, or sinks lower and lower in a landfill of their own garbage.

There is great potential within you, if you’re right of mind. We choose our own paths.

If you’ve never thought about it, your subconscious has been walking you down that path already. You are being lead by your fears, insecurities, pain, and all the negative patterns you formed from an early age. All those protective layers that helped you as a child and teen, still control and reign over you to this day as an adult.

Because your brain chose the path of least resistance.

If you realize you’re on the wrong track, change course. It is never too late.

Seize your potential, heal yourself, and EVOLVE.

Best of luck and I wish you all the best
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Re: What happened to this place?

Postby Iznahs » Tue Mar 29, 2022 9:49 pm

Thanks for this text.
As for the being on the wrong tracks, I had this feeling most of my life and still often do, sometimes it's the truth, but sometimes it's just my mind playing tricks with me and I simply need to invest more energy/dedication etc. Not always easy to tell which is which.
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Re: What happened to this place?

Postby Grayskull » Sat Apr 09, 2022 11:53 am

I don’t think a lot of people had a choice but to move on but you’re right if this place turning into a barren hell hole helped nudge people to move on then I suppose it was worth it.
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Re: What happened to this place?

Postby Iznahs » Tue Apr 19, 2022 10:19 pm

I'm glad this place still exists though. It could have been worse. :lol:
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Re: What happened to this place?

Postby salles » Fri Jun 10, 2022 9:08 pm

easiersaidthandone wrote:It’s barren, deserted.

Hopefully, this means you’ve moved on with your lives and become better, more mature and wise adults.



My best guess is posters from NPD forum, ASPD forum and SPD forum have joined other forums that are more active and either continuously get banned, or suck it up and try to relate to the mindlessly boring topics out there.
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Re: What happened to this place?

Postby dontlookathim » Tue Jul 19, 2022 4:31 pm

Reddit is where most PD convos take place nowadays. Google’s SEO updates really screwed this place over.

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Reddit is where most PD convos take place nowadays. Google’s SEO updates really screwed this place over.
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Re: What happened to this place?

Postby MeAgain » Wed Jul 27, 2022 9:13 am

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