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Am I gay or bi?

Postby Tom2010 » Wed Sep 15, 2010 8:46 pm

I just turned 19 and I've just started drinking. At a young age I've always been attracted to guys, however, recently when I started drinking I become attracted to woman. When I'm not drunk I prefer guys, and when I am drunk I equally prefer woman. What do you think about this?

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Re: Am I gay or bi?

Postby gwilly » Thu Sep 16, 2010 10:33 pm

Probably gay. People can do uncharacteristic things while drunk, and usually it doesn't define themselves. What would you be if you did not drink? That's just my opinion of course. Ultimately only you can answer this question.
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Re: Am I gay or bi?

Postby Daniel » Tue Dec 14, 2010 6:29 am

You are definitely a homo. And I mean that with in the sweetest way possible because I am a homo myself. I go through the same thing when I'm drinking. The reason: your preference becomes more indiscriminate when you're drunk.

Think about straight men who **** around with their straight male friends when they get drunk. They're not actually INTO guys but they are just horny enough to do that.

If you are starving, anything tastes good. Alcohol increases sex drive enough to make your preferences INDISCRIMINATE.

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Re: Am I gay or bi?

Postby josef91 » Sat Oct 29, 2011 4:18 pm

Based on my experience, I believe in the saying "alcohol can preserve anything except secrets". People unconsciously show their true color when they're drunk.
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Re: Am I gay or bi?

Postby Son » Sun Oct 30, 2011 7:26 pm

You're a homo :) I lost my viginity to a woman while drunk at 15. Had a good time but woke up the next day and thout yep I'm gay :lol:
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Re: Am I gay or bi?

Postby mjpam » Sat Nov 05, 2011 2:00 am

Don't rush to label yourself. Continue to explore your sexuality, but have more when not drunk.
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