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Postby Jorge052 » Thu Sep 09, 2010 4:53 am

I'm 15. I began puberty at about the age of 12. I've had wet dreams, I've watched porn, and I get frequent erections. However, I have never masturbated. There's really no reason why. I don't have a desire, however, occasionally when I'm in the shower, I will begin to feel myself, but then I stop far before anything happens. It's like the idea of masturbation turns me off. Is this a problem, or is it normal? Thanks.
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Re: Never masturbated.

Postby jasmin » Sun Sep 19, 2010 2:51 pm

Hi, Jorge! It's probably not a problem, you're still pretty young. Is there any reason why you might feel turned off by sex?
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Postby manic666 » Sun Sep 19, 2010 5:24 pm

Have you been brought up to think that sex is dirty . That could block mind when ever you get erection . At 15 an watching porn i would be pulling the pork sword on a regular basis
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Re: Never masturbated.

Postby Jorge052 » Mon Sep 20, 2010 3:42 am

To both: Nothing that I can think of. My mom's the "love not war" type, and my dad is borderlining on perversion, always pointing out hottest woman to me. I've never had a negative influence about it.
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Postby jasmin » Mon Sep 20, 2010 2:14 pm

Did they ever do anything that made you feel uncomfortable?
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Re: Never masturbated.

Postby Jorge052 » Mon Sep 20, 2010 9:29 pm

Nope. Not at all. They're great parents.
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Postby jasmin » Tue Sep 21, 2010 5:10 pm

Maybe a therapist could help you figure out if anything is wrong, but I don't think you should be worried right now.
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Re: Never masturbated.

Postby CriminologyProf » Wed Oct 04, 2017 2:31 am

Jorge052 wrote:I'm 15. I began puberty at about the age of 12. I've had wet dreams, I've watched porn, and I get frequent erections. However, I have never masturbated. There's really no reason why. I don't have a desire, however, occasionally when I'm in the shower, I will begin to feel myself, but then I stop far before anything happens. It's like the idea of masturbation turns me off. Is this a problem, or is it normal? Thanks.


I was the same way. It has nothing to do with fear of sex or sexual repression. You just haven't experienced a full orgasm while awake, so you're not really sure what masturbation "does" and that may make you anxious. I recommend sitting down to some good porn, and masturbating to completion. After that, you're entire outlook will change.

I remember my first wakeful orgasm, around the age of 14. I was in bed playing with myself while fantasizing and boom, my whole body seemed to converse, my feet curled, and I ejaculated. It was a totally new experience for me and I was not expecting it. After that, I masturbated regularly.
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