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Why do I want everyone to hate me ?

Postby eyespythecia » Sat Jan 02, 2021 4:00 pm

Hi,

Can someone please explain why someone would have a "compulsive need" to always do that's that would make everyone hate them?

Like it's as if "everyone hates him" is the default "state/condition", and if it's not so, then they would do things to make everyone hate them to return to that state/condition

And if anyone does NOT hate them, that it just feels awkward/out-of-place... And so does things to make everyone hate them so that they return to that "normal/familiar" state/condition

Can someone tell me what kind of phenomena/condition this is  and why they are doing things to make everyone hate them?

Thank you for any info/assistance
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Postby eyespythecia » Sat Jan 02, 2021 4:04 pm

Hi,

Can someone please explain the name for a condition where you want people to celebrate/cheering you dying *mod edit*

Like what is this condition called and what causes it?

Thank you for any info and help!
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Re: Why do I want everyone to hate me ?

Postby Remember Ronni » Sun Jan 03, 2021 1:56 am

Not really sure what you're looking for here - we're not professionals and can't diagnose other people. I personally am not aware of the specific diagnoses you're after if they even exist.

Perhaps wanting people to hate you is about power, fear, being a loner, having trust issues, and of course different cultures may also appear this way. Lets face it there are also just those unpleasant characters that are mean or angry because that's just the way they were made. There could be any number of reasons.

I don't know there are actual mental health conditions that make you want everyone to wish you dead. It could be depression or something.

The trouble is there isn't enough there to even hazard a guess as to what lies behind it or if it is even a mental health issue at all. To get a proper diagnosis you need to speak to a professional. A doctor or therapist, a mental health professional.
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Re: Why do I want everyone to hate me ?

Postby Bakha » Sun Jan 10, 2021 10:36 am

Perhaps, You or people like that have a lack of attention or did something bad in the past the recollections of which make them people around to hate. Because of bad things in the past you want people to hate you to calm yourself down.
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Re: Why do I want everyone to hate me ?

Postby serpand » Sun Jan 17, 2021 9:52 pm

I have a similar problem, it seems i always say things that are offensive or shocking like i am trying to intentionally hurt feelings, but in the moment i am not aware that i am doing só. i believe i do só because i get self destructive because of past mistakes like not kissing a girl in the right moment and having little hope my disfuntional mind Will end its internal conflict and just relax só i can get laid and enjoy relationships
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